Friends with Benefits

Friends with Benefits: Good or Bad?

  • I'm female and I think Friends w/ Benefits are a good thing to have

    Votes: 14 9.7%

  • I am a male and I think Friends w/Benefits are a good thing to have

    Votes: 24 16.7%

  • I am female and I think Friends w/Benefits are a bad thing to have

    Votes: 12 8.3%

  • I am male and I think Friends w/Benefits are a bad thing to have

    Votes: 4 2.8%

  • I am female and I think FwB are great as long as both parties understand that's all it is.

    Votes: 38 26.4%

  • I am male and I think FwB are great as long as both parties understand that's all it is.

    Votes: 34 23.6%

  • I'm male and I have no opinion/don't care

    Votes: 7 4.9%

  • I'm female and I have no opinion/don't care

    Votes: 5 3.5%

  • I'm male and I'm religiously opposed to the idea

    Votes: 2 1.4%

  • I'm female and I'm religiously opposed to the idea

    Votes: 4 2.8%
  • Total voters
    144
Chain729

Chain729

CageKicker Extraordinaire
beachcat said:
My last FWB was 5'5", which was about 5 inches shorter than me, but it didn't matter horizontally, and i figured we didn't have anything in common except great s*x. I could never wear cool shoes in public with him, he would appear quit short. Then he turned out to be a real a*s of a human, so it wasn't too hard to kick him to the curb.
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I'm 5'6". 5'10" women look awesome in 6" heels. Puts the boobs at the perfect level. :yay:

and some things in a verticle position are A LOT easier. :whistle:

And then there's the part where people look at me like she's in charge because she's bigger and I know full well she'll be on her knees at home :whip:

I like taller women :hot:
 
Pete

Pete

Repete
lovinmaryland said:
:yeahthat:

I've dated guys who have these annoying habits or quirks that doesn't necesarily mean they are bad people just that I couldn't stay in a relationship w/ them.... but the sex is too good to stop cold turkey so he then becomes a FWB until I wean myself down and we are just friends:shrug:
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OK, I am far from a prude but i kinda have to ask. What kind of "quirk" is so annoying that you don't want a relationship BUT is not annoying enough to get nekkid and let the guy inject his Ball Park into you?
 
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dems4me

Guest
jwwb2000 said:
Effe buddies were great. Call em up when you want a piece, take a shower when you are done and then go on about your business. If you want to hang out with em you can, but you didn't have to.

Ahhhh....to be single again.....:lol:
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Do they still call this a "booty call" now adays? :nerd: :confused:
 
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kris31280

Guest
Pete said:
OK, I am far from a prude but i kinda have to ask. What kind of "quirk" is so annoying that you don't want a relationship BUT is not annoying enough to get nekkid and let the guy inject his Ball Park into you?
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Sometimes people come with some pretty heavy baggage that would take far too long to unpack, but there's some pretty great sexual chemistry there and you choose to continue the friendship and the sexual chemistry but don't try to deal with the unpacking of the baggage.
 
nobody really

nobody really

I need a nap
Pete said:
OK, I am far from a prude but i kinda have to ask. What kind of "quirk" is so annoying that you don't want a relationship BUT is not annoying enough to get nekkid and let the guy inject his Ball Park into you?
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being mean to my dog, having skid marks, inability to cook or manage his finances....
 
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missperky

Guest
SoMDGirl42 said:
Missperky~ We're going to have to work on getting you laid really soon by all of your now seeking posts. :killingme :killingme
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Who said I wasn't "getting" laid...:whistle:
 
Pete

Pete

Repete
beachcat said:
being mean to my dog, having skid marks, inability to cook or manage his finances....
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Really bad skid marks or just little faint ones?












I am killing my self :roflmao: :killingme :lmao: :killingme
 
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dems4me

Guest
Well, now I'm wondering... how many FwBs can a girl have and at one time before she's not considered (not trying to be blunt) a slut or something :shrug: If its all casual and the girl has 9 FwB's... would that be considered a little trampy by a guy? :shrug: I understand guys are looking for FwBs but what if she has about 8 more on the side :shrug: Would that then be a turn off? :confused:
 
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missperky

Guest
dems4me said:
Well, now I'm wondering... how many FwBs can a girl have and at one time before she's not considered (not trying to be blunt) a slut or something :shrug: If its all casual and the girl has 9 FwB's... would that be considered a little trampy by a guy? :shrug: I understand guys are looking for FwBs but what if she has about 8 more on the side :shrug: Would that then be a turn off? :confused:
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They don't know about each other, keep up.


:lol:
 
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kris31280

Guest
dems4me said:
Well, now I'm wondering... how many FwBs can a girl have and at one time before she's not considered (not trying to be blunt) a slut or something :shrug: If its all casual and the girl has 9 FwB's... would that be considered a little trampy by a guy? :shrug: I understand guys are looking for FwBs but what if she has about 8 more on the side :shrug: Would that then be a turn off? :confused:
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I think that may be another question... at what point is a girl considered a slut
 
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wkndbeacher

Guest
dems4me said:
Well, now I'm wondering... how many FwBs can a girl have and at one time before she's not considered (not trying to be blunt) a slut or something :shrug: If its all casual and the girl has 9 FwB's... would that be considered a little trampy by a guy? :shrug: I understand guys are looking for FwBs but what if she has about 8 more on the side :shrug: Would that then be a turn off? :confused:
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I think a test would have to be taken every week..and a few weeks after for either party after its done.
 
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