"Gays" - tell them the Truth

virgovictoria

Tight Pants and Lipstick
PREMO Member
K_Jo said:
Perhaps it's more of a :banghead: than a losing battle. :lol: I do get tired of having bible quotes thrown at me. And I was once told by a member of this forum that I am not a Christian because I don't believe every word of the bible. I'm pretty sure that's supposed to be an insult.

:smoochy: :love: :banana:

I pretty much have figured out where I stand on all of this... I am more concerned with what I am going to do to make a difference - or more - how I am going to spend my time walking this earth as opposed to what will happen in the afterlife, if one exists.

I believe in God, with a capital "G"; I subscribe at times in a tale of a begotten son, who sacrificed his life, I internalize Bible verse and feel serenity and peace from scripture. I believe in the scientific theories, Darwin and certainties of evolution. I gain insight from Eastern philosophers and holistic healers. I take into account great pyschoanalyists - Jacques Lacan, Freud, who make no great issue of a God or Christianity as the purpose of driving ones actions in life, but sex.

Some may find this attitude hypocritical, but each thought and theory and writing has a lot of good to be learned. I am not adverse to taking what I want and leaving the rest and I am not going to argue living this way. I feel that my God is something, a higher power, inside of me that will guide me to be a better person, to do the right thing and to use my experiences wisely.

Homosexuality is what it is. I don't feel it is a religious matter, but a personal one. He who has strong Christian faith may feel it is his job to save his fellow man and bring him into his fellowship. At a certain point however, more harm will be done to the fellowship than good, as seen by this board, by seemingly radiating hate and zero tolerance. Setting an example is the best, I feel, a loving Christian can do, and let those you FEEL are suffering know that your brand of salvation exists and is waiting for them, when THEY are ready.

If you FEEL they are suffering, don't deny them their misery. My priest, yes I was raised Catholic, once told me that his best hope, when young adults fell away from the church, was that they found their way back. When they were ready. Then, they were ready to truly commit.
 

Chasey_Lane

Salt Life
jazz lady said:
I rarely get into religious discussions because they usually incite me beyond reason. This topic is is no exception, but I just can't let it go this time because it hits home.

If this attitude makes me a non-Christian, so be it. I can look in the mirror and be at peace with myself knowing that I love all others without conditions, with great compassion, and with a humility for the love they give back to me ten-fold. With that, it makes me the richest person on earth and I am eternally grateful for that. To me, THAT is what life and LIVING is all about.
:clap: Jazz, this was EXCELLENT! :yay:
 

2ndAmendment

Just a forgiven sinner
PREMO Member
One: I am not back pedling as Chasey would have it.
Two: I will be glad to discuss this Jazz.
Three: I have a life outside the board, so I don't always have time to respond right away. I have a meeting now; I will be back.
 

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
Tonio said:
We're supposed to believe that there's an epidemic of family men deciding to turn gay and run off with Raoul the pool boy?
I know, personally, at least three women in St. Mary's County in the last few years who have left their husbands for a woman. Married for years with kids and the whole nine yards.

However I know a zillion times that many couples that have split up because of hetero infidelity, so there you go.
 

Tonio

Asperger's Poster Child
vraiblonde said:
I know, personally, at least three women in St. Mary's County in the last few years who have left their husbands for a woman. Married for years with kids and the whole nine yards.
While I'm not Kisney or Masters & Johnson, my gut feeling is that women's romantic and sexual feelings are completely different from men's. All the stuff I've read about relationships suggest that the companionship is much more important to women than the sex. It's possible that the women you mentioned wanted to be with another woman for the relationships and not for the sex. That may be especially true if their husbands were jerks who didn't care about their wives' feelings.

Plus, most of the debate on this issue focuses on male gays and not on lesbians. I'm not sure why. My guess is many devout Christians believe that men should be head of the family, and they believe homosexuality interferes with that.
 

ceo_pte

New Member
A great book. His Needs, Her Needs by Haley or Harley

Top five things that men can do to make them irresistible to their wife.

1)Show her Affection(open doors,etc)
2)Conversation(not just uh huh and yeah)
3)Open and Honest(about your feelings, love for her)
4)Financial Responsibility(be willing to give up some of your wants to satisfy her needs or to show that you are being responsible w/ the families finances)
5)Ge a good Father

Top five things that women can do to make them irresistible to their husband. I bet you'll never guess what #1 is.....!

1) Sex
2) Recreational Partner(Not the same as #1)

I can't remember the others for the ladies, sorry!
 

mrweb

Iron City
"Gays" - tell... 06-08-2005 12:29 PM You're misinformed

Explain how I am misinformed :confused: Apparently you don't think others can voice their opinion, mighty big of you. :hidingbehindredcarma: :boxing:
 
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dems4me

Guest
gumbo said:
:yeahthat:

Dem's :shutup: and me

Not very Christian like I know , But for some reason I think God will understand.


OK, I've tried the shut up :)shutup:) thing, but I'm still trying to figure out the "and me" step and I'll I've learned is I don't like Gumbo. Please advise. :tap:




:lol:
 
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czygvtwkr

Guest
Hmmm wonder if it was a gay zelot or a Christian zelot that left me red...
 

morganj614

New Member
dems4me said:
OK, I've tried the shut up :)shutup:) thing, but I'm still trying to figure out the "and me" step and I'll I've learned is I don't like Gumbo. Please advise. :tap:

:lol:

Learn to love people for who they are(unless they are inherently evil)and concern yourself with what you can do better.. :patriot:
 
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dems4me

Guest
morganj614 said:
Learn to love people for who they are(unless they are inherently evil)and concern yourself with what you can do better.. :patriot:

Thats what I always try to do... see the good in everybody...:shrug: I just can't imagine going around in life seeing only the bad in people... what a miserable life that would be.:shrug:
 
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Kizzy

Guest
dems4me said:
Thats what I always try to do... see the good in everybody...:shrug: I just can't imagine going around in life seeing only the bad in people... what a miserable life that would be.:shrug:


Phooey on that, I look for the bad 1st and build from there. :lmao:
 
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dems4me

Guest
Kizzy said:
Phooey on that, I look for the bad 1st and build from there. :lmao:


:lol: I hope you are kidding :lol:

Its a good thing you didn't meet me before introducing me to BF then... :lol:
 
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dems4me

Guest
Kizzy said:
Phooey on that, I look for the bad 1st and build from there. :lmao:


BTW, I like your siggy about asking advice, I guess I was a product of the magic 8-ball upbringing... I'd ask a question or advice... shake... shake... shake!! It'd be an answer I didn't like... I'd shake it again until I got the answer I'd wanted... :roflmao: Much like I do on the forums.... I ask a question... ummm...don't like that answer... shake... shake... shake... either rephrase the question or keep fishing for the answer I want.. :shrug: Damned 8-ball influence:cussing:
 
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