Originally posted by RabbitLady
due to his health plus the fact that he is just darn lazy.
Audience:
How Lazy Is He???
Seriously - if he's really lazy, that means you can easily exhibit some control over his diet. If he's too lazy to cook dinner, and such.
Salad and fish and chicken - goodbye pasta and steak and fried cheese. After this diet knocks off about a pound or thirty, you and he will both be amazed at how un-lazy he will suddenly become.
Seriously.
Not only will it be easier to lug himself around with 30 fewer pounds (That's a LOT), his heart and circulation will be better, breathing and sleeping is easier and more effective - and when he sees himself looking a little better, and clothing fitting better, that will provide an incredible amount of optimism and motivation to continue this trend.
I speak from experience.
Originally posted by RabbitLady
So I'm sure I'll get some more negative comments....I'm ready for them 
Nah - There's nothing wrong with worrying about the health of a loved one who's trapped in a self-destructive mindset.
The term is called: "Letting oneself go." And it is very difficult to get someone who has let themselves go to get back into a healthy lifestyle. But it is most definitely possible. I wish you luck.
). My Mom was going through this weird phase and she got her boobs done and a tummy tuck. If anyone wants to know the horror stories with tummy tucks, just ask!
I wish you the best of luck. You have every reason to be upset and concerned. I just wish that he could find the slightest motivation to make his life better for you and the kids. When somebody you love doesn't change their behavior to better their life, it makes you feel not loved by them.
:shrug:
