Grown Men Livin Wit Mommy....
- Thread starter Qurious
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Sure - if you want to live with his parents after you're married. I admire people who care for invalid parents - I just don't want to do it myself. Financial is no excuse - I left home at 19 and haven't lived there since, even after my divorce with two dependent children.migtig said:
migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
Everybody's different, and sadly, not everybody can be as strong as you. I have known guys who moved back home after divorces, just so they had child care assistance. My father moved back in with my grandmother for a short time, after my grandfather died (back in the 90's) to help HER financially and emotionally recover from her loss. Every story is different. Doesn't hurt to hear it out and then make a decision, rather than making a snap judgement.vraiblonde said:
Ponytail
New Member
I moved back in with my mom when I was 28, after leaving for college, graduating and working in another state for a few years. I left to come here when I was 32.
No biggy. Lots of reasons why I moved in with mom. But both of us benefitted from it. I was able to pay off college bills and save up for a house of my own, and my mom benefitted from all of the work that I was able to do on her house, stuff that needed to be done that she otherwise wouldn't have been able to afford to get done.
I don't see a problem with it. I ran into a few women that did though. No big deal to me. I don't have time for folks that shallow, friend or otherwise.
Sometimes life isn't as black and white as we'd like it be.
No biggy. Lots of reasons why I moved in with mom. But both of us benefitted from it. I was able to pay off college bills and save up for a house of my own, and my mom benefitted from all of the work that I was able to do on her house, stuff that needed to be done that she otherwise wouldn't have been able to afford to get done.
I don't see a problem with it. I ran into a few women that did though. No big deal to me. I don't have time for folks that shallow, friend or otherwise.
Sometimes life isn't as black and white as we'd like it be.
Qurious
Im On 1.
cattitude said:
explain.
Because if your 34 and spending money at the bar and offering to take me out but you dont have your own place but living in your mothers basment rent free for 4 years....
what financial trauma are you in that your not by yourself.
Im not stupid so I ask: "is your mother ill?"
His reply: "no, she just doesn't want me to go, and why should I?"
Basically its convienance and thats just laziness to me.
cattitude
My Sweetest Boy
Qurious said:
He's not 34, he's 22. He works two jobs, he's not a bum. He has some bills and is working to pay them. He cannot afford to take care of his obligations and live outside of the home. I don't mind him living at home and neither does his father. He helps us. He is more bothered about living at home than we are having him there.
Qurious
Im On 1.
kwillia said:
well with good reason.
unless mommy dearest is ill you wont get a date with me. Call me shallow if you will but your a MAN who shouldn't be living with mommy because it's convienant and your helping each other out.
If you want to get intimate with your date where do you take her? A hotel???
Dont want to wake mother up!
I'm an 
. Just ask mom, she'll tell ya. 
That's when I first REALIZED that.