I had seen my hubby at a party. I asked my friend about him. Later, that night mmy friend comes up and tells me the girl he was talking to has a thing for him and it maybe mutual and i looked at my friend and said i will marry him and have his kids. she looked at me like i was crazy. 2 weeks later, I met my frien and she told me that He(future) hubby was looking for a girl, My eyes lit up and asked what about "the girl", to which she replied She liked him but he didn't. The next day, I went to work pulled out the Harford county(MD) phone book and went through every indian name and asked them if they had attend a party. I called his number 4 times no reply, no answering machine so I wrote a note and about to mail it when the people who had adopted him told him they would like to introduce him to an indian girl, very independant, smart,, blah, blah blah, he was hesitant at first then, He comes walking into my parents house. After a brief introduction we talked and the next thing that comes out of my mouth were "I want to marry you." I start laughing and he just smiles and then i asked him where he lived While writing the address I realize that The note that I was going to mail has the same address so i excuse myself to double check, triple check. Then, come to findout, his uncle is my dads classmate through elementary school, my father-in-law was our whole entire family(uncles, aunts, nieces, nephews, cousins) eye doctor in kenya. never met him once in kenya we hung out at the same place but we met here and 3 months later we married. It'll be 15 years in August.