Husband asked for a divorce....

Baja28

Baja28

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vraiblonde said:
For crap's sake, can you at least let her get the husband out of the house before you try to give her the schnozzle??
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Hey! I haven't hit on her.

And with all my medical & legal training, I am not familiar with the term "schnozzle".

Now on Greys last night they did a penisectomy! :jet:
 
hotmomma

hotmomma

mmmmhmmmmm
So I havn't read the last half of the thread so this may have been asked. If he is the one that asked for a divorce why hasn't he gotten out of your house yet?
 
acommondisaster

acommondisaster

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- Change all pin numbers.
- Get his name off any charge accounts.
- Run anti virus on any home computers to make sure there aren't any keyloggers and then change passwords on email and online banking accounts, etc.
- Stop responding to any texts from him that aren't about the health and welfare of the kids or directly related to getting the divorce started.
- Let your employer know alittle about your situation (especially the part where he's threatening to see that you lose your job). Don't go into gory details or spend a lot of time on this, let them know that you won't bring your personal problems to work, but you felt they should know.
- Calmly tell him the clock doesn't start ticking until you all are separated, so he's delaying the process by still being there. Don't fight with him, don't respond to his insults and stay calm for your kids.
- If he's sleeping in the living room or family room, move him into one of the kids bedrooms so he's not always in your face.
Good luck.

Does Maryland do mediation? Would that help her?
 
jetmonkey

jetmonkey

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vraiblonde said:
You don't think guys act like jerks. And other men don't think guys act like jerks. But women don't think they act like hysterical #####es, either, so we can see where perception and perspective might come into play.

This is how it works:

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Roman

Roman

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acommondisaster said:
- Change all pin numbers.
- Get his name off any charge accounts.
- Run anti virus on any home computers to make sure there aren't any keyloggers and then change passwords on email and online banking accounts, etc.
- Stop responding to any texts from him that aren't about the health and welfare of the kids or directly related to getting the divorce started.
- Let your employer know alittle about your situation (especially the part where he's threatening to see that you lose your job). Don't go into gory details or spend a lot of time on this, let them know that you won't bring your personal problems to work, but you felt they should know.
- Calmly tell him the clock doesn't start ticking until you all are separated, so he's delaying the process by still being there. Don't fight with him, don't respond to his insults and stay calm for your kids.
- If he's sleeping in the living room or family room, move him into one of the kids bedrooms so he's not always in your face.
Good luck.

Does Maryland do mediation? Would that help her?
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Baja will answer your question..he knows everything!
 
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daylily

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vraiblonde said:
He realized he had no other means of support and changed his mind.
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Exactly right, because god forbid he get a job and support himself like a grown man. :loser: He's basically a stay at home dad right now. I'm not knocking him for that. I gave up my career to temporarily be a stay at home mom so it's no different. But you better believe if I was going to threaten my husband with divorce that I'd be working and have a place to move to before I did so. What is he planning to do? Ask for alimony too? Or just move out and go on welfare? What a douche!
 
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