Husband asked for a divorce....

[acommondisaster]

So what if we pretend we only know one side of the story? What if the guy's still in constant pain and they agreed that rather than pay for childcare, he'd stay home with the kids? What if she did or said something this past week that was the last straw for him and he can't wait to get away from her psycho ways, at any cost?

He just told her he wanted out of the marriage, do you really think she's going to tell us he's a good guy? Of course he's a loser freeloader today. Who knows if a month ago she described him as a good stay-at-home dad?

 

[Railroad]

Husband has at least momentarily lost his vision of the wonderful treasure you are. You are beautiful, and he needs to wake up and see that. Marriage isn't a casual thing. He strove to win you, and you thought hard about marrying him. The children made things more difficult, as they always do, but he still is responsible for them, and he still is responsible for 9xX (X being the number of kids). No money, no love, no this or no that, you belong to each other. Survival involves losing pride and re-invoking a loving relationship.

You are beautiful. Mr. Man is crazy if he wants to lose you.

 

[vraiblonde]

So what if we pretend we only know one side of the story? What if the guy's still in constant pain and they agreed that rather than pay for childcare, he'd stay home with the kids? What if she did or said something this past week that was the last straw for him and he can't wait to get away from her psycho ways, at any cost?

Tough ####. If he wanted us to know his side of the story, he'd have gotten on here and told us.

Besides, it's just a story. Do you really want to get emotionally involved in the marriage of two people you don't even know?

 

[EmptyTimCup]

I don't #### on the first date

:fixed:

but do you swallow on the 2nd or 3rd .......


what is it ........ some women will spread their legs on the 1st date rather than go down on a guy, others will give you a bj rather than taking their pants off ........



and the ones .......... 'I never do this on the 1st date' - but right up to the bed room you go .......

Dinner and a couple drinks

Movie and Popcorn

back to her place, watch some TV ...
.. starting getting busy on the couch,
off to the bed room,
leave in the morning after breakfast

 

[EmptyTimCup]

hey, Winnie Cooper grew up to be a hottie math genius!

Bluebeerriver: Whatever Happened to Winnie Cooper?

 

[Baja28]

YEAH RIGHT...............

Baja will answer your question..he knows everything!

So I'm living rent free inside your head. Man it's lonely in here.

 

[acommondisaster]

Tough ####. If he wanted us to know his side of the story, he'd have gotten on here and told us.

Besides, it's just a story. Do you really want to get emotionally involved in the marriage of two people you don't even know?

Didn't realize the husband was a forumite. Emotionally involved? Hardly...that was the whole point.

 

[Roman]

So I'm living rent free inside your head. Man it's lonely in here.

 

[struggler44]

Didn't realize the husband was a forumite. Emotionally involved? Hardly...that was the whole point.

I believe Stokes is friends with some on here, like you said, 1/2 the story

 

[StokesPrincess]

I believe Stokes is friends with some on here, like you said, 1/2 the story

I dont know anybody on here. I am really new to the area.
My husband is still at home although by Saturday afternoon he was begging me to forgive him and has been the best "house b****" in the world. My house has never been so clean. I want to thank everybody for all the information, I think when I presented him with the actual forms already filled out for the limited divorce his mind may have changed. Hopefully soon I will be "Happily married" again but for now it's lets see how it goes!
Thanks again everybody!

 

[BadGirl]

I dont know anybody on here. I am really new to the area.
My husband is still at home although by Saturday afternoon he was begging me to forgive him and has been the best "house b****" in the world. My house has never been so clean. I want to thank everybody for all the information, I think when I presented him with the actual forms already filled out for the limited divorce his mind may have changed. Hopefully soon I will be "Happily married" again but for now it's lets see how it goes!
Thanks again everybody!

I'd divorce his sorry ass anyways for the emotional abuse he's put you through. But only after he's thoroughly cleaned the house, powerwashed the outside of hte house, and washed and waxed my vehicle. Then I'd divorce him.

 

[SoMD_Fun_Guy]

I dont know anybody on here. I am really new to the area.
My husband is still at home although by Saturday afternoon he was begging me to forgive him and has been the best "house b****" in the world. My house has never been so clean. I want to thank everybody for all the information, I think when I presented him with the actual forms already filled out for the limited divorce his mind may have changed. Hopefully soon I will be "Happily married" again but for now it's lets see how it goes!
Thanks again everybody!

Hey Stokes - wishing you the best.
The rest of us don't have all the details, however it sounds like you have a long way to go before you will be "Happily Married" again. For whatever reason your husband said he wanted a divorce, you blast it here, and write about how bad things are and the forumites go off on every possible scenario. It didn't take you long to say that you didn't want anything to do with him and were going to get rid of him and live in sin from now on.

And now after showing him papers, he's changed his ways and is being the best "house biatch" and you're fine with everything. It sounds like there is a lot more going on. You don't become "Happily Married" by calling your husband's bluff with signed divorce papers to "force" him back into behaving. It sounds like the 2 of you have a lot to work on (should probably get marriage counseling) and I wish you the best of luck in getting things back on the right track for the whole family - whatever that path may be.

Good luck with the "let's see how it goes".

 

[vraiblonde]

has been the best "house b****" in the world. My house has never been so clean.

Threaten him once a month or so to keep it that way.

 

[vraiblonde]

And now after showing him papers, he's changed his ways and is being the best "house biatch" and you're fine with everything.

That would be my idea of happiness. Men typically don't know how to act anyway, so if you can get some labor out of them - SCORE!

 

[Hank]

I dont know anybody on here. I am really new to the area.
My husband is still at home although by Saturday afternoon he was begging me to forgive him and has been the best "house b****" in the world. My house has never been so clean. I want to thank everybody for all the information, I think when I presented him with the actual forms already filled out for the limited divorce his mind may have changed. Hopefully soon I will be "Happily married" again but for now it's lets see how it goes!
Thanks again everybody!

I bet you're not hot with a ton of baggage.... don't tease us with your melodrama...

 

[SoMD_Fun_Guy]

That would be my idea of happiness. Men typically don't know how to act anyway, so if you can get some labor out of them - SCORE!

Vrai, that's a very general statement - what do you mean by that?

 

[Hank]

Vrai, that's a very general statement - what do you mean by that?

She's right! :shrug:

 

[Hank]

That would be my idea of happiness. Men typically don't know how to act anyway, so if you can get some labor out of them - SCORE!

U just haven`t met the right 1......yet?? this is only internet.....& a social informative website.

saved for posterity

 

[SoMD_Fun_Guy]

She's right! :shrug:

In what context?
"Men typically don't know how to act anyway"...

...at the dinner table? (no belchin)
...when you have guests over? (no sittin around in boxers scratchin his ass)
...when married? (no cheatin?)
...when livin together? (no lazyiness and not doing chores)
...after sex (no just rollin over, smokin a cig, and leavin)
...

So Vrai, you just want a guy that feels forced to stay with you and does labor around the house for ya?

 

[Hank]

In what context?
"Men typically don't know how to act anyway"...

...at the dinner table? (no belchin)
...when you have guests over? (no sittin around in boxers scratchin his ass)
...when married? (no cheatin?)
...when livin together? (no lazyiness and not doing chores)
...after sex (no just rollin over, smokin a cig, and leavin)
...

So Vrai, you just want a guy that feels forced to stay with you and does labor around the house for ya?

Men are no doubt less mature than women and usually dudes think w/ the lower dude, dude...:shrug: