Husband asked for a divorce....

daylily

no longer CalvertNewbie
I dont know anybody on here. I am really new to the area.
My husband is still at home although by Saturday afternoon he was begging me to forgive him and has been the best "house b****" in the world. My house has never been so clean. I want to thank everybody for all the information, I think when I presented him with the actual forms already filled out for the limited divorce his mind may have changed. Hopefully soon I will be "Happily married" again but for now it's lets see how it goes!
Thanks again everybody!:buddies:

Seems he was either just angry for some reason and got over it or that he was playing childish games to see how you'd react. And I guess you didn't react the way he expected you to. The "D" word isn't something to thrown around lightly. I hope you two can work things out if it's meant to be. Maybe counseling? Good luck!

I'd divorce his sorry ass anyways for the emotional abuse he's put you through. But only after he's thoroughly cleaned the house, powerwashed the outside of hte house, and washed and waxed my vehicle. Then I'd divorce him.

Lol, don't forget a really detailed Fall cleanup in the yard. I hate doing that! :killingme

Threaten him once a month or so to keep it that way. :yay:

:lol: Hey, that could work! :buddies:
 

daylily

no longer CalvertNewbie
Really, Stokes - wait until fall is over to throw him out. :lol:

:killingme I just spent way too long mowing the hell outta all the leaves in the yard......and they've barely begun to fall yet! Not to mention all the pruning, weeding, spider removal :)cds:) needed. And cleaning the gutters.......:whistle: Yes Stokes.......winter will be here before ya know it so hold out a little longer. :wink:
 

happyazz

Skiing in the clouds
I dont know anybody on here. I am really new to the area.
My husband is still at home although by Saturday afternoon he was begging me to forgive him and has been the best "house b****" in the world. My house has never been so clean. I want to thank everybody for all the information, I think when I presented him with the actual forms already filled out for the limited divorce his mind may have changed. Hopefully soon I will be "Happily married" again but for now it's lets see how it goes!
Thanks again everybody!:buddies:

UNTIL NEXT TIME...........................and there will be a next time. It is called ABUSE, EMOTIONAL ABUSE, BUT STILL ABUSE.
 

PrepH4U

New Member
I dont know anybody on here. I am really new to the area.
My husband is still at home although by Saturday afternoon he was begging me to forgive him and has been the best "house b****" in the world. My house has never been so clean. I want to thank everybody for all the information, I think when I presented him with the actual forms already filled out for the limited divorce his mind may have changed. Hopefully soon I will be "Happily married" again but for now it's lets see how it goes!
Thanks again everybody!:buddies:

So now that you have some time, go find a daycare & a cheaper place to live. He will now have no excuse to go get a job, it doesn't matter if all he can find is a cashier position at 7-11.
Get all your ducks in a row and NEXT time he decides that he is not happy and wants a divorce, kick his ass out with a map to the homeless shelter.
He sounds like he is trying to control you and that is not cool. Take control yourself of the situation and stay strong.
 

ArkRescue

Adopt me please !
So now that you have some time, go find a daycare & a cheaper place to live. He will now have no excuse to go get a job, it doesn't matter if all he can find is a cashier position at 7-11.
Get all your ducks in a row and NEXT time he decides that he is not happy and wants a divorce, kick his ass out with a map to the homeless shelter.
He sounds like he is trying to control you and that is not cool. Take control yourself of the situation and stay strong.

Yeah because they can do what many married people do now - work opposite shifts,so each becomes the day care provider for the other ..... and the money isn't so tight.
 
I'd divorce his sorry ass anyways for the emotional abuse he's put you through. But only after he's thoroughly cleaned the house, powerwashed the outside of hte house, and washed and waxed my vehicle. Then I'd divorce him.
Itsbob, what does your honey-do list for your next CWS day look like...:eyebrow:
 
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I'd divorce his sorry ass anyways for the emotional abuse he's put you through. But only after he's thoroughly cleaned the house, powerwashed the outside of hte house, and washed and waxed my vehicle. Then I'd divorce him.


:killingmeWish I had you around when I got my divorce!
 

FED_UP

Well-Known Member
I dont know anybody on here. I am really new to the area.
My husband is still at home although by Saturday afternoon he was begging me to forgive him and has been the best "house b****" in the world. My house has never been so clean. I want to thank everybody for all the information, I think when I presented him with the actual forms already filled out for the limited divorce his mind may have changed. Hopefully soon I will be "Happily married" again but for now it's lets see how it goes!
Thanks again everybody!:buddies:

Emotional roller coast ride WOW, after he called you &$^% and &#%@, I guess the other girl let him go, if that was the case. I think you still need to get to the bottom of his BS, you will be treated good for a while because men don't like to talk about all that emotional BS. We rather just get you in the bed so you can shut up, give it to you good and make you forget all about our issues. :killingme Good luck
 
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