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Kyle · Jan 20, 2007

Chasey_Lane said:
Nothing. We lived together for quite some time before getting married so I feel we pretty much knew everything about each other before getting married. I have far worse habits than he does anyhow.

Tell him cleaning your toenails with the dinner knife is perfectly acceptable if you wipe it off afterwards.

crabcake · Jan 20, 2007

Kyle said:
Tell him cleaning your toenails with the dinner knife is perfectly acceptable if you wipe it off afterwards.

Yea, but she switches the knife out with his without telling him. :barf:

Wickedwrench · Jan 20, 2007

mv_princess said:
Could have asked your S.O. one question before you got married, that could have changed your views about them. What would it be?

Maybe something you learned later that you had wished you knew before.

I'd have asked if she was going to go off the deep end when she hit midlife like her mama did. :roflmao:

Lesson learned. :yay:

Wickedwrench · Jan 20, 2007

mainman said:
Do you ever think you hate me enough to try and have me murdered?

There truly is a fine line between love and hate. :yay:

And boy when they hate you, they really HATE you. :roflmao:

CableChick · Jan 20, 2007

Wickedwrench said:
There truly is a fine line between love and hate. And boy when they hate you, they really HATE you.

Nothing like a woman scorned. :jameo:

Wickedwrench · Jan 20, 2007

Wenchy said:
"Is there mental illness in your family?"

Serious up, that is the most valid question in this entire thread. :twitch:

Wickedwrench · Jan 20, 2007

CableChick said:
Nothing like a woman scorned.

Hell hath no fury, ya know? :faint:

Wickedwrench · Jan 20, 2007

crabcake said:
Exactly! And don't be ruled by his either, because eventually things go limp.

:viagra:

jaybeeztoo · Jan 20, 2007

Wickedwrench said:
I'd have asked if she was going to go off the deep end when she hit midlife like her mama did.

Lesson learned.

Mid-life? Did you marry someone older than you? Or are you saying I'm midlife? :twitch:

Wickedwrench · Jan 20, 2007

jaybeeztoo said:
Mid-life? Did you marry someone older than you? Or are you saying I'm midlife?

She was older than you. :roflmao:

migtig · Jan 22, 2007

Here's a new question or two:

Are you going to intentionally start fights with me?

Are you going to pick me up and throw me in your self involved anger?

Find out how that person deals with conflict, confrontation and anger.

ylexot · Jan 22, 2007

migtig said:
Here's a new question or two:

Are you going to intentionally start fights with me?

Are you going to pick me up and throw me in your self involved anger?

Find out how that person deals with conflict, confrontation and anger.

Probably not something most people think about, but definitely a valid concern :huggy:

mv_princess · Jan 22, 2007

migtig said:
Here's a new question or two:

Are you going to intentionally start fights with me?

Are you going to pick me up and throw me in your self involved anger?

Find out how that person deals with conflict, confrontation and anger.

I like those, I always like to ask how a persons jealous streak is. If they say they don't have one, they are liars.

ylexot · Jan 22, 2007

mv_princess said:
I always like to ask how a persons jealous streak is. If they say they don't have one, they are liars.

...or they don't care about you. Either way, it's bad.

mv_princess · Jan 22, 2007

ylexot said:
...or they don't care about you. Either way, it's bad.

Very true. didn't think about it like that.

Chain729 · Jan 24, 2007

migtig said:
Here's a new question or two:

Are you going to intentionally start fights with me?

Are you going to pick me up and throw me in your self involved anger?

Find out how that person deals with conflict, confrontation and anger.

That's a very good question. My addition would be: "If I walk away, get silent, go to the couch, or tell you that I'd rather discuss it later... are you going to follow me, bug me, or call after me, leave messages on my voicemail (work and personal)- purposefully tempting my demon? Or are you going to understand that patience is thin at that point and leave me the hell alone until I'm ready to continue?"

Between that, not taking responsibility for their actions, and having a very poor follow-through rate, sometimes the Halberd starts to look like a wise option.

Other questions:

"How much attention do you require to function?"

"Is that really what you want?"

"How much work are you really willing to put into this?"

"Are your blinders detachable naturally, or only with Prozac?"

"Can you understand that someone needing 3 or 4 days now and then to themselves, without communication, doesn't mean that they don't love you?"

"Can you understand that some of us have to remind ourselves to communicate, show emotion (with exceptions for anger and extremes), value emotion and do romantic crap? And that this doesn't mean that we don't love you?"

mv_princess · Jan 24, 2007

Chain729 said:
That's a very good question. My addition would be: "If I walk away, get silent, go to the couch, or tell you that I'd rather discuss it later... are you going to follow me, bug me, or call after me, leave messages on my voicemail (work and personal)- purposefully tempting my demon? Or are you going to understand that patience is thin at that point and leave me the hell alone until I'm ready to continue?"

Between that, not taking responsibility for their actions, and having a very poor follow-through rate, sometimes the Halberd starts to look like a wise option.

Other questions:

"How much attention do you require to function?"

"Is that really what you want?"

"How much work are you really willing to put into this?"

"Are your blinders detachable naturally, or only with Prozac?"

"Can you understand that someone needing 3 or 4 days now and then to themselves, without communication, doesn't mean that they don't love you?"

"Can you understand that some of us have to remind ourselves to communicate, show emotion (with exceptions for anger and extremes), value emotion and do romantic crap? And that this doesn't mean that we don't love you?"

Oh those are good!! I am finding that guys that I am meeting, are very needy. They need me to talk to them every day or else they start calling and cussing me out. Very strange stuff, i thought this was a female issue.

bohman · Jan 24, 2007

Chain729 said:
My addition would be: "If I walk away, get silent, go to the couch, or tell you that I'd rather discuss it later... are you going to follow me, bug me, or call after me, leave messages on my voicemail (work and personal)- purposefully tempting my demon? Or are you going to understand that patience is thin at that point and leave me the hell alone until I'm ready to continue?"

The next addition: "In the reverse situation, if I do leave you the hell alone to simmer down for a while, will you tell me when you are ready to talk again or will you be extra pissed that I didn't realize it the minute your mood shifted?"

ylexot · Jan 24, 2007

mv_princess said:
Oh those are good!! I am finding that guys that I am meeting, are very needy. They need me to talk to them every day or else they start calling and cussing me out. Very strange stuff, i thought this was a female issue.

I did too...you're finding some odd ones.

Larry Gude · Jan 24, 2007

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Are you a lying cheating whore?

....would have said "Why no, dear. Why do you ask?"

:lmao:

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