It's not you It's me.......

[Mojo]

So a friend of mine got the it's not you it's me speech the other day (well I guess technically I can't call it a speech since she sent it to him as a text message ) and when I asked him what happened he said "There's nothing I can do it about it she just has issues". What I want to know is.......has any woman actually said this to a guy and been serious? I have always heard of women using that to blow guys off without hurting their feelings.

 

[Cowgirl]

Your poll should be multiple choice.

 

[Dye Tied]

So a friend of mine got the it's not you it's me speech the other day (well I guess technically I can't call it a speech since she sent it to him as a text message ) and when I asked him what happened he said "There's nothing I can do it about it she just has issues". What I want to know is.......has any woman actually said this to a guy and been serious? I have always heard of women using that to blow guys off without hurting their feelings.

for poor Miss Kitty

 

[Mojo]

Your poll should be multiple choice.

I guess I could have put a choice for "I have never used it" but I'm just interested in the people that have actually said that.

 

[Mojo]

for poor Miss Kitty

You gotta keep up with the times

 

[4d2008]

Dear Mojo.

Its you, Not me.


Good bye.

 

[Dye Tied]

You gotta keep up with the times

I don't read The Tard Times

 

[kvj21075]

Dear Mojo.

Its you, Not me.


Good bye.

im sorry its really Cornelious that is making me break things off

 

[Mojo]

Dear Mojo.

Its you, Not me.


Good bye.

Last week you said it was you.

I don't read The Tard Times

Go knock, I'll let you in

 

[aps45819]

Since I'm a wonderful, kind, generous person and an excellant lover, when I've heard that, I know it's true.

 

[huntr1]

So a friend of mine got the it's not you it's me speech the other day (well I guess technically I can't call it a speech since she sent it to him as a text message ) and when I asked him what happened he said "There's nothing I can do it about it she just has issues". What I want to know is.......has any woman actually said this to a guy and been serious? I have always heard of women using that to blow guys off without hurting their feelings.

It means "You've got a small package and/or you don't know how to use it, so I am dumping you because I have this problem where I want a man that's better in the sack."

 

[migtig]

The poll isn't multiple choice.


I've used it both ways.

 

[kvj21075]

It can be true, sometimes a guy is absolutely wonderful but the chick just doesnt want to be with them. They just arent what she wants.

 

[GWguy]

Never used it, never heard it. They just told me to get lost....to hell with my feelings

 

[Mojo]

The poll isn't multiple choice.


I've used it both ways.

Crap, I didn't think about that

It can be true, sometimes a guy is absolutely wonderful but the chick just doesnt want to be with them. They just arent what she wants.

Well then it would be him, not you

 

[kvj21075]

Crap, I didn't think about that



Well then it would be him, not you

well yeh in a way. more "Theres nothing wrong with you, i just dont want you" but it doesnt mean theres anything wrong with the guy :shrug:

 

[4d2008]

Well, I guess I know what we are talking about tonight

I hate it when I get text messages from KVJ that say.


We need to talk.

 

[kvj21075]

Well, I guess I know what we are talking about tonight

I hate it when I get text messages from KVJ that say.


We need to talk.

you have enough defects for me to love for a lifetime you are perfect for me!

 

[4d2008]

you have enough defects for me to love for a lifetime you are perfect for me!

not sure exactly how I feel about this statement

 

[kvj21075]

not sure exactly how I feel about this statement

it means you may not be perfect, but you are perfect for me c'mon im trying to be lovey!!!!!