Ladies: If your s/o was buying drinks in the club...

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julz20684

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kwillia said:
Again, I disagree! I believe someone can carry on a conversation with a complete stranger of the opposite sex and that doesn't mean they are trying to get in their pants.
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:yay: I've had many conversations with strange men, I mean men that are strangers and nothing was ever implied. But then again, I'm a social person and I talk to everyone, as well I accept conversations started by others.
 
RoseRed

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I was out with a guy friend the other day and another man sent me a drink. He seemed fine with it. :shrug:
 
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julz20684

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RoseRed said:
I was out with a guy friend the other day and another man sent me a drink. He seemed fine with it. :shrug:
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I think it's a gentlemanly gesture to say hi!
 
Toxick

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kwillia said:
I believe someone can carry on a conversation with a complete stranger of the opposite sex and that doesn't mean they are trying to get in their pants.
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Maybe the woman thinks that way - but I'll guarantee the man in this little hypothetical is imagining what she looks like with her hair spread out across his lap.
 
vraiblonde

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Qurious said:
Didn't know I had to write out a scenario? I said it was a complete stranger from jump....I shouldn't have even had to break it down for all of you. Its common sense.
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Larry and I pick up strangers in bars all the time. Sitting there, get into a conversation, before you know it you're all buying each other drinks.

You, Qurious, are apparently the jealous type who is threatened by other women. I am not. Therefore things that bother you aren't going to bother me.
 
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vraiblonde said:
Larry and I pick up strangers in bars all the time. Sitting there, get into a conversation, before you know it you're all buying each other drinks.

You, Qurious, are apparently the jealous type who is threatened by other women. I am not. Therefore things that bother you aren't going to bother me.
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Exactly, I guess it depends on whether you are secure with yourself and your relationship.
 
vraiblonde

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Toxick said:
Maybe the woman thinks that way - but I'll guarantee the man in this little hypothetical is imagining what she looks like with her hair spread out across his lap.
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Guys think that whether they buy you a drink or not, so at least you should get a beer out of the deal.
 
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vraiblonde said:
Guys think that whether they buy you a drink or not, so at least you should get a beer out of the deal.
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Vrai, please point me to these guys, I've been unattached too long. TIA
 
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julz20684

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RoseRed said:
I did. :lol:
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I guess we're weird like that. Hey if I buy you a drink tonight, will you join me and Kwillia in rubbin uglies?
 
RoseRed

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julz20684 said:
I guess we're weird like that. Hey if I buy you a drink tonight, will you join me and Kwillia in rubbin uglies?
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Sure thing. I have nothing better to do. :yay:
 
Toxick

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julz20684 said:
Exactly, I guess it depends on whether you are secure with yourself and your relationship.
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:bs:

I'm quite secure in my relationship.

That doesn't mean I'm going to grin and watch while my wife sashay's around the dance floor with some effing jerk who's imagining what she looks like naked, and is wondering how quick he can stop imagining.

It also doesn't mean I'm going to buy (or accept) drinks from some tramp at a bar.




But if we're still talking about sitting at Outback (or whatever) and striking up platonic conversations with whomever... or going to a wedding where everyone knows everyone... or at a cocktail party... I'm cool.
 
Tinkerbell

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Qurious said:
:killingme If I'm going to the club/bar with my man what in the blue hell am I doing leaving him to talk to complete strangers of the opposite sex?? and then what am I doing accepting drinks from these men?

WHOOOAHHH NELLY!!! :lmao:

Your husband is going to do what you allow him to do. So if you have no problem with him buying drinks at the club for other women (especially women who look hotter than you) then you probably wouldn't have a problem with him sleeping with her either.

yes I said it!

All the men who have bought me drinks in the club wanted something as I mentioned earlier...whether that be conversation, my phone number or even a chance for a one night stand. If you are there with your man and a guy asks to buy you a drink your reply should be: "im here with my husband, thanks anwyay." By you accepting the drink, (no matter what you think) the man is thinking "she's interested."

Why lead him on? Thats why chicks be getting called sluts, hoes' and gold diggers. You do not accept a drink unless you are interested in the guy.
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Oh for christ sakes, do you take EVERYTHING wrong. I didn't say I run around the bar talking to strangers. I talk to people I know. :smack:

Am I supposed to stand by the pool table like a lump while his buddies and him play pool? Why? Because "He's my man and I'm all insecure that he might cheat on me." Please.

I don't care if he buys a woman a drink because WHAT'S THE BIG DEAL????? You said buying her a drink, not hammering her on the bar! Christ, decide what you want to know. Hell, no, I'm wouldn't "let" him screw some other woman. But, hey, dummy, when a man cheats on you, it's not about what you "let" him do. From what I understand, they don't exactly ask first.

So, are you in an insecure relationship and feel that you need to have complete and total control over his every waking moment or he will leave you for someone hotter? Do you feel that if your man glances at another woman, he is going to start screwing her? Do you worry when he goes out to Lowe's that he might not just pick up a new hammer?

Get a grip.
 
Qurious

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vraiblonde said:
Larry and I pick up strangers in bars all the time. Sitting there, get into a conversation, before you know it you're all buying each other drinks.

You, Qurious, are apparently the jealous type who is threatened by other women. I am not. Therefore things that bother you aren't going to bother me.
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Let me guess....

you and Larry are swingers. if your not, you mise well be....

weirdos. :lmao:
 
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