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justbeachy

can be a real beach
mainman said:
19??

You can do whatever you wanna do.....
A 19yr old should respect his mothers wishes and be happy she found someone who loves her. My kids (girl 19, boy 17) wern't to happy with me having a boyfriend at first... but by the time we decided to buy a home together they were fine. Now they love visiting and they like the BF and his kids.
 

slotted

New Member
just.me said:
I have asked and he doesn't want to talk about it. He says it won't change anything so why talk?
Sometimes it can be helpful to get fresh opinions that are not biased by family/friendship ties, that is why I thought I would throw it out there for discussion....
I appreciate your honesty and where you are coming from. You asked for opinions and I gave one.
Adultry is a pretty harsh word.
And the actual act isn't?
:confused:
 

morganj614

New Member
slotted said:
Why not ask your son why he isn't pleased with it. WTH do we (a bunch of people on the internet) know?

Find out what the problem is and work it out with your son and the man who you're committing adultry with. :rolleyes:

If'n you want to :elaine: please spell correctly. It's ADULTERY. TIA :kiss:
 

Tina2001aniT

New Member
slotted said:
I appreciate your honesty and where you are coming from. You asked for opinions and I gave one.

And the actual act isn't?
:confused:
Technically they are committing adultery, but not "really" they are seperated ya know, it's not like she is sneaking out behind his back....
 

justbeachy

can be a real beach
just.me said:
I have asked and he doesn't want to talk about it. He says it won't change anything so why talk?
Sometimes it can be helpful to get fresh opinions that are not biased by family/friendship ties, that is why I thought I would throw it out there for discussion....
Adultry is a pretty harsh word.
You're a pansy
 

Tina2001aniT

New Member
slotted said:
Not get divorced period.....In the eyes of the church even if you are divorced unless it is anulled (sp?)), you are still married......
So anyone that has ever been married should NEVER have another relationship???
 

mainman

Set Trippin
Tina2001aniT said:
Not get divorced period.....In the eyes of the church even if you are divorced unless it is anulled (sp?)), you are still married......
So anyone that has ever been married should NEVER have another relationship???
You are assuming everyone is catholic....
 

just.me

New Member
elaine said:

he is still 'deciding' but now that i have told him that my guy is moving in, he is leaning toward the military......leaning....not actually stepping....yet!
 

itsbob

I bowl overhand
just.me said:
he is still 'deciding' but now that i have told him that my guy is moving in, he is leaning toward the military......leaning....not actually stepping....yet!
Like I said, call the recuiter, problem solved!!
 
just.me said:
he is still 'deciding' but now that i have told him that my guy is moving in, he is leaning toward the military......leaning....not actually stepping....yet!
Sounds like he is realizing the free ride is about to cross some bumpy roads...:shrug: Sometimes it takes a :buttkick: to get them to leave the nest. I don't think you should be making your plans based on what suits him best...:bubble:
 
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