moving in?

[bresamil]

If it's some suckhole, tell him forget it.

 

[ylexot]

I once heard that when a relationship goes bad, it usually happens around the 5th month or so. So, I said 6+ months, but every relationship is different.

 

[desertrat]

Then I'm siding with Vrai on this one... as long as you aren't using this move for ulterior motives such as to force commitment or become dependent expecting to be financially provided for I say what have you got to lose?!?!?! Make sure you continue to be financially independent and DON'T GET PREGNANT.

 

[mv_princess]

Then I'm siding with Vrai on this one... as long as you aren't using this move for ulterior motives such as to force commitment or become dependent expecting to be financially provided for I say what have you got to lose?!?!?! Make sure you continue to be financially independent and DON'T GET PREGNANT.

NO BABIES!!!! Babies come after a ring.

 

[Nickel]

Ft Bragg. So it's still close to home, yet far enough away that I can be on my own with the choice to come back.

Will you come visit me at the beach?

 

[mv_princess]

Will you come visit me at the beach?

Of course, that really is my whole big reason, so I can be closer to another tall chick. And go to the beach.

 

[Nickel]

Of course, that really is my whole big reason, so I can be closer to another tall chick. And go to the beach.

Well, if that's the case I have a cute neighbor you can shack up with.

 

[mv_princess]

Well, if that's the case I have a cute neighbor you can shack up with.

I think I will stick with this one for a while. But maybe I can take weekend vacations.

 

[vraiblonde]

I once heard that when a relationship goes bad, it usually happens around the 5th month or so. So, I said 6+ months, but every relationship is different.

Who cares? If they split up, they split up. She's not going there to marry the guy and live happily everafter. If it turns out that way, great. If not, oh well.

 

[mv_princess]

Who cares? If they split up, they split up. She's not going there to marry the guy and live happily everafter. If it turns out that way, great. If not, oh well.

I do happen to really like him. And I would like to live with him, to see if things work out. And like she said, if they don't I got to see a new part of the country

 

[ylexot]

Who cares? If they split up, they split up. She's not going there to marry the guy and live happily everafter. If it turns out that way, great. If not, oh well.

I guess I see moving in with someone differently. I see it as a step towards marriage.

 

[tastycakes]

I would go. You really have nothing to lose. I moved in with my now husband after dating for only a couple of months. Best of luck!

 

[Geek]

I do happen to really like him. And I would like to live with him, to see if things work out. And like she said, if they don't I got to see a new part of the country

What about living on your own, close to him?

 

[migtig]

I do happen to really like him. And I would like to live with him, to see if things work out. And like she said, if they don't I got to see a new part of the country

Nothing ventured - nothing gained! I'll be coming to visit!

 

[kwillia]

Who cares? If they split up, they split up. She's not going there to marry the guy and live happily everafter. If it turns out that way, great. If not, oh well.

No way did I get the sense that this was being done for the sake of solidifying the relationship. Rather, I got the sense that she sees this as an opportunity to take a chance in a new area and who better to roomy with than the guy that she loves being around to boot. With the job he has, they aren't going to be up each other's butts (figuratively speaking :eyebrow) and she has already established a clean getaway if it ends up being a bad move.

 

[vraiblonde]

Make sure you continue to be financially independent and DON'T GET PREGNANT.

Keep it so that you can make a break for it if need be.

 

[kwillia]

What about living on your own, close to him?

It's much more realistic to have a roommate to share expenses with these days.

 

[ylexot]

This is pretty funny...I'm the romantic in the thread!

 

[nachomama]

Then I'm siding with Vrai on this one... as long as you aren't using this move for ulterior motives such as to force commitment or become dependent expecting to be financially provided for I say what have you got to lose?!?!?! Make sure you continue to be financially independent and DON'T GET PREGNANT.

You're young, unattached, you have nothing keeping you here. Go see the world girl!

 

[vraiblonde]

It's much more realistic to have a roommate to share expenses with these days.

And if you can get some free butt out of the deal, whoooeeee!