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[Chasey_Lane]

What do you think when someone is mad, and it is clear they are MAD but will not tell you why?
Or when you know why they are mad but they stay mad and will not talk about it?

I may need to start a poll on this one

Here's my own personal experience for you: I tend to keep my angry/sad emotions inside me. When I'm upset and don't feel like talking about it, that should be enough. Often times it is something stupid that I'm upset about, but I'm still upset. An hour or two, or even a day later and I'm usually fine. The more you ask me what is wrong, the more upset I get. :shrug:

 

[vraiblonde]

(i.e. "Pumpkin, what's the matter, sweetie huh? Come, here love, we're going to get through this together.")

:whew:

No, that's what women do, not men. This is why I'd have made a great lesbian if I could get past the sex part. Women feed each other emotionally. Men...eh.

 

[morganj614]

Great idea!

If you stood HS next to the plunger, could you tell them apart?

 

[Coaster]

:whew:

No, that's what women do, not men. This is why I'd have made a great lesbian if I could get past the sex part. Women feed each other emotionally. Men...eh.

If you do get past the sex part, I want pics

 

[mainman]

If you do get past the sex part, I want pics

So you want pictures of her smoking? Those are all over the place...

 

[vraiblonde]

When I'm upset and don't feel like talking about it, that should be enough. Often times it is something stupid that I'm upset about, but I'm still upset. An hour or two, or even a day later and I'm usually fine.

But that is boring, especially if it happens when you're out somewhere and supposed to be having a good time, or just hanging out together enjoying the day.

Why can't people simply say, "I'm just feeling out of sorts" or "I'm having a cranky moment and blowing things out of proportion"? Moody people suck, especially when it's so easy to simply open your mouth and let the other person know what's going on.

 

[vraiblonde]

If you stood HS next to the plunger, could you tell them apart?

If she started beating the plunger with HS, that would be an even better story

 

[Coaster]

So you want pictures of her smoking? Those are all over the place...

I'd never thought that you would have to be told to put your mind <i>IN</i> the gutter

 

[itsbob]

If you stood HS next to the plunger, could you tell them apart?

The plunger smells better??

:shrug:

 

[JTross]

Your right, but it helps forget that there is one.... If my wife could only figure that one out, all would be fine....

For instance.... Im mad at her, she gives me sex, I forget what Im mad about.

would work everytime

Good point, just not my personal method of solving problems

 

[Chasey_Lane]

But that is boring, especially if it happens when you're out somewhere and supposed to be having a good time, or just hanging out together enjoying the day.

Why can't people simply say, "I'm just feeling out of sorts" or "I'm having a cranky moment and blowing things out of proportion"? Moody people suck, especially when it's so easy to simply open your mouth and let the other person know what's going on.

Yep, it is definitely boring. But unless there is something seriously wrong, I don't let small disagreements get into a big deal. If I get upset, I'm over it w/in an hour.

 

[Christy]

Get outta here! You'd risk a perfectly good laptop in a fit of temper?

Well I wasn't stupid about it. It was contained within a very padded case.

 

[shoe queen]

What do you think when someone is mad, and it is clear they are MAD but will not tell you why?
Or when you know why they are mad but they stay mad and will not talk about it?

I may need to start a poll on this one

Maybe you can try buying something for that person to show that you are sorry if you did anything to upset them. I know you can't buy love or forgiveness, but it HELPS! If you are talking about a female, send her some flowers. That always helps and shows that you are sorry because you thought enough about her to make things better. flowers:

 

[Jameo]

Maybe you can try buying something for that person to show that you are sorry if you did anything to upset them. I know you can't buy love or forgiveness, but it HELPS! If you are talking about a female, send her some flowers. That always helps and shows that you are sorry because you thought enough about her to make things better. flowers:

I can't wait for JD's reply on this one

 

[morganj614]

Maybe you can try buying something for that person to show that you are sorry if you did anything to upset them. I know you can't buy love or forgiveness, but it HELPS! If you are talking about a female, send her some flowers. That always helps and shows that you are sorry because you thought enough about her to make things better. flowers:

Why is HE sorry?

 

[aps45819]

Maybe you can try buying something for that person to show that you are sorry if you did anything to upset them. I know you can't buy love or forgiveness, but it HELPS! If you are talking about a female, send her some flowers. That always helps and shows that you are sorry because you thought enough about her to make things better. flowers:

Never ever apologize for something you didn't do. You'll be considered either a door mat or a liar

 

[jwwb2000]

I can't wait for JD's reply on this one

 

[rack'm]

Maybe you can try buying something for that person to show that you are sorry if you did anything to upset them. I know you can't buy love or forgiveness, but it HELPS! If you are talking about a female, send her some flowers. That always helps and shows that you are sorry because you thought enough about her to make things better.

Materialistic wench.

 

[shoe queen]

Materialistic wench.

I know you are not calling me a wench!!! There is nothing wrong with a man showing his women he cares about her through gifts every once in a while. It's people like you that give men a bad name!

 

[Jameo]

I know you are not calling me a wench!!! There is nothing wrong with a man showing his women he cares about her through gifts every once in a while. It's people like you that give men a bad name!

What about having dinner on the table when she gets home?