Ordering for Females

Dakota

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Hank,

The girl that has a problem with you ordering what she wants for her needs to be terminated from your dating rotation. Sounds like a fussy mess. :lol:
 

Hank

my war
Hank,

The girl that has a problem with you ordering what she wants for her needs to be terminated from your dating rotation. Sounds like a fussy mess. :lol:

Ha! That won't happen! She has been in my life for over 20 years. This was the first time I remember ever ordering for her and she was wondering what the hell I was doing... so we just had casual conversation about the subject and I told her about a date that had complimented me for ordering for her.... I guaranteed her that it would be hard to find many women with the same view as hers that don't enjoy the chivalry.
 

Dakota

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Ha! That won't happen! She has been in my life for over 20 years. This was the first time I remember ever ordering for her and she was wondering what the hell I was doing... so we just had casual conversation about the subject and I told her about a date that had complimented me for ordering for her.... I guaranteed her that it would be hard to find many women with the same view as hers that don't enjoy the chivalry.

oh OKAY... that's different. I would find that unusual if I had been hanging out with somebody for 20 years, who never ordered for me before did so. :lol: I assumed this was a 1st date deal. dur me.
 

Hank

my war
oh OKAY... that's different. I would find that unusual if I had been hanging out with somebody for 20 years, who never ordered for me before did so. :lol: I assumed this was a 1st date deal. dur me.

Well, she not only thought it was unusual for me to do it for her but that the whole concept was unusual and sexist....:lmao: She is a freak and I love her!
 

Hank

my war
oh OKAY... that's different. I would find that unusual if I had been hanging out with somebody for 20 years, who never ordered for me before did so. :lol: I assumed this was a 1st date deal. dur me.

I would never do that on a first date by the way...
 

Dakota

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I would never do that on a first date by the way...

Maybe somebody or yourself could fill me in on why that wouldn't be appropriate on a 1st date. I remember a date ordering for me on the 1st date but we actually knew each other for a while before that between work and other social circles. I've been married for more than 2 decades. :shocking:
 
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aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
Okay, so women are dating retards, too, and it's not just the guys who've lost their manners. Or maybe guys have lost their manners because women are such #####es when the guy tries to act like a gentleman.

That may answer my question of, who the hell neutered all these men???

Out last night and as I reached to open her car door, she grabbed it and tried to hop in the car before I could perform my gentlemanly duties.
Door left her hand, hit mine, bounced back as she was trying to hop in the car.
Top corner of the door caught her just under the eye.
It's black today :lol:
 

vraiblonde

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Out last night and as I reached to open her car door, she grabbed it and tried to hop in the car before I could perform my gentlemanly duties.
Door left her hand, hit mine, bounced back as she was trying to hop in the car.
Top corner of the door caught her just under the eye.
It's black today :lol:

:sigh:

Mine and Larry's first date, Murphy's in Alexandria. We walk to the table and he gets ahead of me to pull out a seat...and I diverted around the table to the other one, thinking he wanted to sit there.

This has been a source of amusement and one of those "stories" ever since. So you'd think I'd learn, but....

Went on a date a few weeks ago, Cafe des Artistes. He moved to pull out the chair and sunny bean if I didn't do it again. Diverted to the other chair. :lol: You can take the girl out of Nebraska...

Anyway, now you have a cute story to tell about your and her courting days. :lol:
 
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MarieB

New Member
In your case, you have Obama telling you what to do, there, Julia. How can any other man hope to measure up to that?

LOL

perhaps it's your inferiority complex that tells you that you don't measure up
 
Actually I think a lot of women are surprised by someone ordering for them, getting the door, basic chivalry chit because they are not used to nor never had it... Don't forget, "nice guys finish last"....

You didn't order for me when we went on that non-date a few years ago. :mad: :butthurt:

Tell them both to get whatever they want while they make you a sammich

:eyebrow:

I knew all along that you were a nice guy, Hankaroo!! :love: My intuition is pretty good. Nice guys finish last because they wait for the right one. My daughter is 26, and is dating a 35 year old great guy (who has never been married). He just called my hub tonight to ask for her hand in marriage. We were like "huh", guys still do that? Very cool and reassuring that the world has not gone totally crazy. :lol: She is getting a surprise proposal, and party that he is planning. Chivalry is not dead! You go, Hank!!:clap:

AWWWW.... :huggy: Congratulations. Let us know what she says :biggrin:

Well, the waitress came over, took my order, then asked me what my son would like to drink. So.... :shrug:

:poorbaby:

I would never do that on a first date by the way...


That explains is. :coffee: Never mind. Carry on...
 

Baja28

Obama destroyed America
I don't get the ordering for her thing. Suppose you order something she hates or is allergic to? :shrug:
 

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
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I don't get the ordering for her thing. Suppose you order something she hates or is allergic to? :shrug:

READ THE THREAD.

We're talking about her telling him what she wants, then he relays it to the waitron. Alternately, we are talking about a couple who knows each other well enough that the man could successfully choose a meal for his lady faire.
 
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