It's great that you have your family & traditions but if you believe the last 4 lines of your statement, you've contradicted the first one. You can study and know about every belief system out there but education means nothing if you deny the truth.
And if you really were "educated", you'd know that Jesus said not to judge wrongly and to judge correctly...but you're soo educated so I'm sure you knew that.
You should read up on Gnosticism and see the flaws of it.
That's not my quote...
I said it was one of the most common reasons and it just happened to ring true here, so I was right.
It is a shortcoming but you can deny it if you want...