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Dakota

Dakota

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SoMDGirl42 said:
Yeah. That's what I everyone said! :lol: We were big news for quite a while! :coffee:

and before anyone starts, he's admitted he was happy in our marriage. He wasn't miserable looking for an excuse to split. Just happens, he was a virgin when we got married and my "friend" was a whore that convinced him he didn't know what he had missed out on since he'd never been with anyone else. She had to show him the ropes. His marriage to her has been misery from the start. She's cheated on him several times, and they argue every single day. I'd say that's karma :lol:
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It always seems that those marriages that end because of somebody else never have a happy life with the "somebody else."

Right now, I have 2 relatives dating people that have just left their marriages, one male, and one female. I know the day they get their feelings hurt will come but right now they brag about how happy they are. I always say tell me in 7 years how happy you are. :lmao:
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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SoMDGirl42 said:
Just to put a spin on your thinking........ things can go to hell in a handbasket quick. Example: My ex and I were "that" couple. Everyone said we had the "perfect" marriage. Everyone wanted to be just like us. And for 16 years we did have a wonderful marriage. We were best friends, and everyone knew it. We bought our first home together in May. He threw me a wonderful surprise 30th birthday party with all my friends and family including a Limo. We celebrated our first Christmas in Dec in the new house. He started an affair with "my friend" in January, we were separated in April and divorced two years later. He married HER the day after our divorce was final. So don't judge everyone. They very well may have been that happy loving couple all those years.
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No. You were not perfect one month, then he was cheating the next. He was a fraud for a lot longer than that and you just didn't see it or want to believe it.

For you it went to hell fast; for him it had been brewing.
 
SoMDGirl42

SoMDGirl42

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vraiblonde said:
No. You were not perfect one month, then he was cheating the next. He was a fraud for a lot longer than that and you just didn't see it or want to believe it.

For you it went to hell fast; for him it had been brewing.
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maybe so :shrug: I can only tell you what he said. It is what it is
 
vraiblonde

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Larry Gude said:
It's like Varia said, paraphrasing; it's just not the same if it ain't spontaneous.

I never worried about her hitting me in my sleep. Once we were done ripping into each other, simple exhaustion. Plus, if she was ever gonna hit me in my sleep, I knew if I pushed her THAT far I wouldn't have to worry because I'd never wake up from it anyway.
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Plus I am not passive-aggressive. "Oh, I'm sorry...I must have been dreaming..."

I'm more like, "Yeah, mother####er, want me to dot yer other eye?? :boxing:"
 
BadGirl

BadGirl

I am so very blessed
I'm afraid to say anything about my marriage....afraid that if I say something bad, it will be construed that I do not love/like my husband. If I say something positive/nice, people will say that I am bragging and that I don't "really" love my husband.

For what it's worth, I adore my husband.
 
K_Jo

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BadGirl said:
I'm afraid to say anything about my marriage....afraid that if I say something bad, it will be construed that I do not love/like my husband. If I say something positive/nice, people will say that I am bragging and that I don't "really" love my husband.

For what it's worth, I adore my husband.
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I adore my husband, too. But once a month, like clockwork, I swear he turns into the biggest a-hole on the planet, and he stays that way for 3-5 days. It's brutal.
 
Roman

Roman

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We've been married over 40 years. Thankfully, more good times than bad. Marriage is something both parties have to work at. These days, it's easier to walk away, than it is to work on the relationship. We got married when we were still in High School, and there were friends that were betting on how long the marriage would last. Funny that most of them that were betting are, on their 2+ marriages. My Husband would agree, that it was hard at times, but...anything worth having is worked for. He is my best friend, and I think I'm his too.The hard part of this relationship, was raising the kids. He was strict, where I was not. That was our biggest hurdle, to make it work BOTH ways.
 
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