What I hate

FED_UP

Well-Known Member
Just to put a spin on your thinking........ things can go to hell in a handbasket quick. Example: My ex and I were "that" couple. Everyone said we had the "perfect" marriage. Everyone wanted to be just like us. And for 16 years we did have a wonderful marriage. We were best friends, and everyone knew it. We bought our first home together in May. He threw me a wonderful surprise 30th birthday party with all my friends and family including a Limo. We celebrated our first Christmas in Dec in the new house. He started an affair with "my friend" in January, we were separated in April and divorced two years later. He married HER the day after our divorce was final. So don't judge everyone. They very well may have been that happy loving couple all those years.

WOW. Look on the bright side, at least it was not your best friend. Is it fair to say you two are not friends anymore?
 

What?! :mad: It's true. :ohwell:

And you know what?! I am still pissed at you for backing out of that wedding you were supposed to go to with me in 2009. :smack: Instead I had to listen to my grandma talk about how I will never get married, have kids, etc. :cds: at least if you would have gone with me, she would have had to keep her mouth shut because you were supposed to *act* like my boyfriend. :mad:

:bitter:

Thanks a lot!!!! :cds:






Oh well... I am married and hate you less now. :coffee:
 
What?! :mad: It's true. :ohwell:

And you know what?! I am still pissed at you for backing out of that wedding you were supposed to go to with me in 2009. :smack: Instead I had to listen to my grandma talk about how I will never get married, have kids, etc. :cds: at least if you would have gone with me, she would have had to keep her mouth shut because you were supposed to *act* like my boyfriend. :mad:

:bitter:

Thanks a lot!!!! :cds:






Oh well... I am married and hate you less now. :coffee:

Jerk! Maybe that's why he stalks you on the forums :smile:
 

MMM_donuts

New Member
I would like to add that I enjoy sharing nice things (and funny things) about my husband publicly but the not-so-nice parts of our relationship are things that we prefer to deal with privately because we feel it's disrespectful to one another air our dirty laundry in the presence of others. Although, we are generally fine with publicly discussing it with others after we've worked our problem out.

I very much think that we have a better relationship than most and we know we are nauseatingly affectionate, but that doesn't mean that we have a completely perfect relationship or that we're compensating for anything that's lacking. It just means we like to make the other one feel as special as we think they are.

Seeing other relationships come apart, especially the ones that were awesome until someone cheated, concerns us and reminds us that we can't take what we have for granted.
 

FED_UP

Well-Known Member
I give my wife a reason to call me an a-hole every day. It has kept us happy for 20+ years.

So if I call her a Bietch once a day, things should go well, another thing to try today besides throwing dishes. Thanks for the tips everyone.
 

warneckutz

Well-Known Member
What?! :mad: It's true. :ohwell:

And you know what?! I am still pissed at you for backing out of that wedding you were supposed to go to with me in 2009. :smack: Instead I had to listen to my grandma talk about how I will never get married, have kids, etc. :cds: at least if you would have gone with me, she would have had to keep her mouth shut because you were supposed to *act* like my boyfriend. :mad:

:bitter:

Thanks a lot!!!! :cds:






Oh well... I am married and hate you less now. :coffee:
:faint:

Holy Hell!!!

How could anyone hate ME!?!?!?
Jerk! Maybe that's why he stalks you on the forums :smile:

:eyebrow:

:smack:
 

libertytyranny

Dream Stealer
Sometimes I think people don't even realize how miserable they are until they start to feel better. I was intensely miserable for quite awhile, but thought it was becuase I was busy, or not feeling well, or life, or because I had bills, etc etc..once I dropped the ex, it was amazing how quickly I felt better..and it took that to realize JUST HOW miserable I was before. I even look different..you just get into something for so long, you just resign yourself to that is the way it is and you do it subconsciously. So it may not even be willfull deceit.
 

warneckutz

Well-Known Member
Sometimes I think people don't even realize how miserable they are until they start to feel better. I was intensely miserable for quite awhile, but thought it was becuase I was busy, or not feeling well, or life, or because I had bills, etc etc..once I dropped the ex, it was amazing how quickly I felt better..and it took that to realize JUST HOW miserable I was before. I even look different..you just get into something for so long, you just resign yourself to that is the way it is and you do it subconsciously. So it may not even be willfull deceit.

Agree with this 110%... Been there.

One diet water for you!
 

RareBreed

Throwing the deuces
Nobody thought my husband and I would last even a year. We met in March, moved from VA to MD in May, and married in June of the same year. So, 3 months of dating. That was almost 16 years ago! :jet: We are polor opposites. He loves to talk and is very social with others. I prefer to not have to deal with many people and don't tolerate others well. :lol:
 

Fishn Guy

That's Dr. Fishn to you..
I hate kittens...


There, I said it... I hate the little sons of #####es and all their furry playfullness, because no matter how much you try and be friends with them, no matter how many times you pet and play with them... they always grow up to be these condescending dickweeds that look down on you all day, and watch you while you sleep and stick their ass in your nose.. and all sorts of disrepectfull #### like that... I hate em... I hate cat loving people.. cause they are always like
"Oh look at the pretty kitty" and "he's so majestic and wonderful"... no they are not!!! they are vermin.. they dig their claws into your sac in the name of "getting comfortable", they fake being your friend.. they piss all over everything even though nthey have some designated place to do so... then... they want you to rub them and be all nice to them... so they can go perch someplace and stare at you... like "look what I made you do, dumbass.."...
 

RoseRed

American Beauty
PREMO Member
I hate kittens...


There, I said it... I hate the little sons of #####es and all their furry playfullness, because no matter how much you try and be friends with them, no matter how many times you pet and play with them... they always grow up to be these condescending dickweeds that look down on you all day, and watch you while you sleep and stick their ass in your nose.. and all sorts of disrepectfull #### like that... I hate em... I hate cat loving people.. cause they are always like
"Oh look at the pretty kitty" and "he's so majestic and wonderful"... no they are not!!! they are vermin.. they dig their claws into your sac in the name of "getting comfortable", they fake being your friend.. they piss all over everything even though nthey have some designated place to do so... then... they want you to rub them and be all nice to them... so they can go perch someplace and stare at you... like "look what I made you do, dumbass.."...

:killingme
 

FED_UP

Well-Known Member
I hate kittens...


There, I said it... I hate the little sons of #####es and all their furry playfullness, because no matter how much you try and be friends with them, no matter how many times you pet and play with them... they always grow up to be these condescending dickweeds that look down on you all day, and watch you while you sleep and stick their ass in your nose.. and all sorts of disrepectfull #### like that... I hate em... I hate cat loving people.. cause they are always like
"Oh look at the pretty kitty" and "he's so majestic and wonderful"... no they are not!!! they are vermin.. they dig their claws into your sac in the name of "getting comfortable", they fake being your friend.. they piss all over everything even though nthey have some designated place to do so... then... they want you to rub them and be all nice to them... so they can go perch someplace and stare at you... like "look what I made you do, dumbass.."...

This thread is good for therapy, let it all out, free of charge.
 

Larry Gude

Strung Out
I hate kittens...


There, I said it... I hate the little sons of #####es and all their furry playfullness, because no matter how much you try and be friends with them, no matter how many times you pet and play with them... they always grow up to be these condescending dickweeds that look down on you all day, and watch you while you sleep and stick their ass in your nose.. and all sorts of disrepectfull #### like that... I hate em... I hate cat loving people.. cause they are always like
"Oh look at the pretty kitty" and "he's so majestic and wonderful"... no they are not!!! they are vermin.. they dig their claws into your sac in the name of "getting comfortable", they fake being your friend.. they piss all over everything even though nthey have some designated place to do so... then... they want you to rub them and be all nice to them... so they can go perch someplace and stare at you... like "look what I made you do, dumbass.."...

Outstanding.


:buddies:
 

Larry Gude

Strung Out
Just to put a spin on your thinking........ things can go to hell in a handbasket quick. Example: My ex and I were "that" couple. Everyone said we had the "perfect" marriage. Everyone wanted to be just like us. And for 16 years we did have a wonderful marriage. .

I do not believe that. At all.

There is NO way in hell a man leaves a wonderful marriage let alone a woman.

Come on, what's the truth? :popcorn:
 
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