Why do women seek men to earn more than they do?
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Chasey_Lane
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Nickel
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I have a toddler, they would gang up on me and life as I know it would be over.Originally posted by cattitude
I know the feeling. No more pets for me.
I love Biscuit to death but it's like having a toddler..it's 9:30 and he's tired and I'm tired.
But he loves doggies so much. 
I know more women who have been abandoned by their husbands - no CS, no visitation, no nothing - than I know guys who've been taken to the cleaners. Someone may have already said this but I haven't gone through all the posts yet.
Maybe not but you've certainly seen women who were struggling because they're raising children by themselves with no help from the sperm-donor.
It has been my experience that men lock *themselves* out. I'd tell you about the divorce negotiations my ex and I went through but it's too tedious. Let's just say that Larry's having custody of his daughters was a big red bold check on the "plus" side.
mixallagist
Be careful what u wish 4
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I think that your post just made people think aloy more than usual. Including me. just so you all know that i'm not putting anyone down. i like a challenge.
mixallagist
Be careful what u wish 4
I meant alot not aloy. It's early and I should be asleep but this topic has been on my mind all night.
Go Pete!
That said, I must confess that I make about one and a half times what Larry makes. But I didn't start out-earning him until about a year ago and, since we're both business owners, that situation can change at any time. When we first met, I wouldn't even have considered him if he made less than me. Sounds shallow, but it's true. I wanted a guy that's better than me. :shrug:
Hear hear!Originally posted by pixiegirl
On top of taking on his own responsibilities he chose to take on my ex's as well and raise his son just as if he were his. That's a hell of a MAN.
mixallagist
Be careful what u wish 4
Like I said earlier those men are few and far between. If you find one don't let him go. He's a keeper. There are a few left out there and hopefully I will find one.
Larry had that situation and HE got custody, not his ex. And she's a good person and involved parent, not some crack whore.
It's all about choices. There are how many billion people out there? There's a pretty good chance that one of them is your soul mate. It's just a matter of not settling for Mr. He'll Do.
I think I'm done now. *whew*