Why women "don't like nice guys"

Bann

Bann

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ItalianScallion said:
You can come down now :drama: Maybe that's why I didn't remember you :duh:

I don't recall us having a conversation. Do you also just jump on the bandwagon to try to be cool? :yawn:
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Don't flatter yourself, I was replying to RoseRed's response - not yours.
 
Bann

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ItalianScallion said:
I HAVE to be mean or they won't like me...:evil: :yahoo:
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WronG. Didn't think much of you to begin with. Meeting you in person at the Toot's get together did nothing to change that. Which, BTW, is why I chose not to converse with you. :yay:
 
Nickel

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ItalianScallion said:
You can come down now :drama: Maybe that's why I didn't remember you :duh:

I don't recall us having a conversation. Do you also just jump on the bandwagon to try to be cool? :yawn:

And yet soo many women SAY they want a nice guy. They're walking contradictions and deserve what they get. Everyone sees the guy for what he is except the woman. They hang around poop and wonder why they end up smelling like it. I have no sympathy for them. Then, after many abusive relationships, they regularly complain about how bad the guys treated them and all men become :loser: Sure, guys lie and play games but are the women really blind to that forever?

Warning! Keep out! High estrogen area...:evil: :roflmao:
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You sound super nice. :popcorn:
 
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RoseRed said:
I am hardly all that. You were merely a creeper from afar. Don't flatter yourself.
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You need a serious reality check then.
Bann said:
WronG. Didn't think much of you to begin with. Meeting you in person at the Toot's get together did nothing to change that. Which, BTW, is why I chose not to converse with you. :yay:
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Way to be 2 faced then...:howdy:
Nickel said:
You sound super nice. :popcorn:
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I'm just being truthful and many can't handle it. Oh well; life goes on...
 
vraiblonde

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Cheeky1

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Railroad said:
So, maybe the jerks are fun for a little bit and the nice guys are for keeps? Should jerks assume that she's "just passing through?" If you marry the jerk that attracted you, are you hitched to an ogre (clue: PM me for my sister's nightmare relationships).

The only thing I think I'm sure of, is that where women are concerned, there ARE NO RULES. Each woman is as unique as her fingerprint. This is an important thing to know, because one can't adopt oneself to fit the person one is attracted to. Guys might be easier to typecast, but even then, there are quirks which make one very different from all the others. Some of them are very nice quirks and some aren't.
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:yay:

I think what I am alluding to is.....sometimes (rarely) men have to be a dick to keep their woman. Other folks might call it by a different name: putting your foot down, this is the way it is going to be, no - you can't and won't have this, I want and you are going to do this, this is what needs to and is going to happen, etc. Of course, remember, I said sometimes, and more likely to be rare in the grand scheme of things. Much of the time, one does not need to be a dick to stand up for yourself and to not default to what someone else believes/thinks. For the majority of the time I believe the word nice is over-utilized. Being kind is a much better way to go, in my opinion :yay:.

But, hey, don't take my word for it....go do it yourself:howdy:

Cheers everyone!
 
Bann

Bann

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ItalianScallion said:
You need a serious reality check then.

Way to be 2 faced then...:howdy:

I'm just being truthful and many can't handle it. Oh well; life goes on...
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:lmao: RR needs a serious reality check & I am two-faced because...?

I daresay it's you who can't handle the truth. Oh, well - life goes on.
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Cheeky1

Cheeky1

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ItalianScallion said:
And yet soo many women SAY they want a nice guy. They're walking contradictions and deserve what they get. Everyone sees the guy for what he is except the woman...

Warning! Keep out! High estrogen area...:evil: :roflmao:
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:lol:

Women probably do want a nice guy....as a friend. As a shoulder, a b!tch (shopping) buddy, a bouncer, whatever.....anything, but a sexual relationship.

It doesn't come into the picture until she wants it, OR, the 'nice' guy reveals that he wants to be in an exclusive, sexual relationship with her. She thinks - well, he's been so nice and been there for me all the time...that's kind of weird, but hey maybe that's way he actually is (is he gay - I'll find out really quick, I'll kiss/have sex with/blow him). 90% of the time, from what I hear, it's all down hill from there...especially for her.


Offtopic - ever witnessed a group of women try to figure out where to go to eat? They all try to be nice and default to what the other women want...

The woman doesn't want another woman - she wants a man. You plan the outing. We are going HERE and we are going to do THIS. A woman can say no to this, but she probably won't.

Now that I think of it - I am probably the last person to be speaking about this.....just forget everything I just said:coffee::geek:
 
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