Why women don't like you "nice guys"
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mv_princess
mv = margaritaville
I would also like to put out there, that if you find a guy he seems like a nice guy, check to see if he has cats. If he does RUN....as quickly as you can.
I am not sure why, but most guys with cats tend to be this super clingy nice guy if not full on crazy
I am not sure why, but most guys with cats tend to be this super clingy nice guy if not full on crazy
libertytyranny
Dream Stealer
jerkface who seemed lovely had TWO cats. ANd talked to them in a "cat" voice. SO I would agree RUN..but not because of cling 
SamSpade
Well-Known Member
If they're lucky, they might learn something about YOU. And a few others on here. I rarely know of many things that are pertinent to all women.
In any relationship, there's always one of the two that wants it a lot more. They're the ones who DON'T end it. They might be clingy, or they might be passive, but one of them wants it a lot more than the other. And in any couple, usually they both know who it is. I've seen married couples who have been married a long time. One of them deeply loves the other; the other, just a little less in return.
And like the song, everybody plays the fool. Sooner or later - *you're* the "nice girl". You're the one who really wants it to work. He's the one who could walk away and not give a crap. You're the one who cries, even though you're sure it won't happen.
Damn it sucks.
Hank
my war
ftcret
New Member
Kitties have scratchy tongues...
HollyRockJT
Jus Chillin...
I want it all but don't give it all to me because then I'll get bored.
What woman doesn't? But I ain't 'giving' anything, well, kinda sorta, but it don't happen all the time
That's incredibly unattractive to me
SCORE
I can even change your windshield wipers
or if you're really lucky, your tire!
Hank
my war
Use peanut butter.... You hardly feel anything. (Just what I heard)
mv_princess
mv = margaritaville
See crazy....I have met a few that I was like "Ok he seems nice, even if he is a total push over..." Then bam, crazy with cats. I thought cat ladies were crazy.
What about "cat" singular?
Hm I don't know...that might be pushing it
JeJeTe
Happiness
That's incredibly unattractive to me
Freaking Ditto! It is so hot when mens can be manly and do handyman and mechanical stuff.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Hmm...Peanut butter as a pet. Well, I guess, no litter box would also be a benefit in addition to the tongue thing...
SamSpade
Well-Known Member
That's the gist of why are women attracted to bad boys. You know they're jerks, they're rude #######s. But they like YOU. You hope they'll treat the world like crap but treat you special. It makes you unique.
I don't get it, but I see it all the time. Both sisters were this way; before long, the bad boy treated THEM like crap too, but they hung on until they just woke up.
And moved on to the next bad boy.
ftcret
New Member
Then what is the point?
Milk bath with a hundred kittens to lick you dry was a marketing technique used by a local B&B when I lived in Britain
Hank
my war
Hank
my war
mv_princess
mv = margaritaville
a Man covered in a little grease with a ball cap on...good lord 
lucky_bee
RBF expert
I feel like I'll forever be looking for the answer to this question...
I've sorta gotten down the difference between a regular guy and an ####### (doesn't stop me from being in to them anyways...) but I feel like at least one of the things seperating a genuine nice guy and some clingy freak is confidence. All the cling-ons are clearly lacking self-confidence. That's MY job, as a woman. I'm supposed to be the insecure one. It comes naturally to most of us.
A guy with a nice balance has enough confidence to not allow people, including his SO, to walk all over him, to not get caught up in trivial details, is secure in the work he produces and his daily ramblings, confident to be alone sometimes (hello, girls night)....but he has just enough ####### in him to not give a #### about stupid crap, "protect" his SO/family/friends, and do some manly #### around the house.
For now I guess I'll keep
ZARA
Registered User
It's not the "bad boy" the women are attracted too. It's the self esteem, strength, and commanding nature of the bad boys that the women like. They just have not found a nice guy that has those qualities too.
No woman wants a mewling, inept, groveling, submissive male that has given up his ability to think for himself just to kiss your ass as a partner. I know I don’t.
JeJeTe
Happiness
I feel like I'll forever be looking for the answer to this question...
I've sorta gotten down the difference between a regular guy and an ####### (doesn't stop me from being in to them anyways...) but I feel like at least one of the things seperating a genuine nice guy and some clingy freak is confidence. All the cling-ons are clearly lacking self-confidence. That's MY job, as a woman. I'm supposed to be the insecure one. It comes naturally to most of us.
A guy with a nice balance has enough confidence to not allow people, including his SO, to walk all over him, to not get caught up in trivial details, is secure in the work he produces and his daily ramblings, confident to be alone sometimes (hello, girls night)....but he has just enough ####### in him to not give a #### about stupid crap, "protect" his SO/family/friends, and do some manly #### around the house.
For now I guess I'll keep
Hmmm...this is an interesting theory. And one I'll keep in mind.
