But that's where parenting comes in to play. I definately understand that all children have their own unique personalities and characteristics. I especaially understood this once #2 came along and she was so easy going, sweet and responsive to very gentle parenting... but that first born...
I had a sweet wonderful son until he hit the age of 2 1/2... I called my mother in tears one night because I had a 3 year old running my household. She verbally slapped me silly and told me to get a grip on myself and my son... my job was to produce a productive human being that would fit into the cogs of society. I realized she was right and I began to raise my son. It's been a constant challenge, but well worth it as he's turning into a really great guy.... so far...