I debate, but when have I ever not been freindly to you or yours? You disagree with me more then anyone on these boards, but when I have met you I have shaken your hand, and treated you respectfully.
I may disagree with you, but I don't think you any less of a person for what you believe, nor do I think you are any less a good person. I know you have a good heart, and would welcome you into my home any time.
The forums are fun, but at the end of the day, just because I disagree with you doesn't mean I don't like or respect you. (there are, however, a few exceptions to that rule!)