Your statement is a generalization on stilts.
Speaking for the guys, the reason good guys like me have problems getting quality women here is because the "loser" guys that precede us make the women hate men.[/QUOTE]
That statement hit the "bullseye". Months after I moved from San Diego on new orders I waited several monther before I ventured in this area to start dating. What I found were woman you likes their local guys, lets say in their mid 30's and 40's dress like they are trying to relived thief youth through the way they dress.
The baggy jean short if they put their legs together it looks like they're wearing a skirt. the a year old hair cut and the I don't like to shave look. tough guy. oh yeah, many seem to not hold a job or the sheriff are on first nambe basis.
Then comes a guy clean cut dress nice, have a stable job takes care of himself, enjoy life in general and oh yeah don't drink or smoke. The reaction I got from those I met was like I was from another planet.
Also, one thing I still don't get about women. How is it easy for tough acting, rough cut guy, don't have a job, suck you dry of your hard earned money and win you over. But it unspeakable for the opposite guy.