Men Look for Good Bodies in Short-Term Mates .....

[smdavis65]

more than justa way with words. oh yeah. much better @ listenin than u may think.

... gay.

 

[Pete]

more than justa way with words. oh yeah. much better @ listenin than u may think.

This shtick is so worn out.

 

[n0n1m0us3]

Could you post your pic please?

Umm. No. why would I do that?

 

[TurboK9]

Don't be ridiculous. How many times have you seen some hot babe hooked up with a dumpy looking guy? ALL the time. But you almost never see a really hot guy with some dumpy woman on his arm. Unless he's black and she's white - what's up with that?

Anyway, women aren't as attracted to looks as men are. Which is good because women are better looking anyway.

The reason you see hot babes with guys YOU consider dumpy is A)because you are not that hot babe, so your tastes are different and about 20 years or more out of date, and B) the guys you consider 'hot' are likely stuck on themselves, and thus terrified of rejection by default, so they go for the girls hot enough to be acceptable to their friends but normal enough to likely not turn them down.

Frugly guys ain't got nothing to loose. Dollar to donuts says they had known those girls for some time before the first date, too.

So, how many frugly men have you spotted at the bar or grocery store and wanted to take home because they were 'nice'? Give me a break. I know a lot of guys who married women they wouldn't have 'picked up'. They got to know 'em. This isn't about that, it's about 'shopping', and women are just as big on looks as men when it comes to actively looking. You all don't hook up with men that are 'ugh' at first in a bar or whatever any more than men hook up with women whose physical appearance is 'ugh' to them.

What you all do is biatch about men being so shallow when you all are attracted to a guy who disses you. Rather than get your butt in gear and purty up, you take the low road and make statements like "how shallow, looks aren't important", or some such other nonsense, and get all butt hurt. Then you run around mocking any man who doesn't meet your standards when they approach you. Women shoot down men all the time who approach them based on anything from how they dress to what cologne they are wearing and what car they drive.

Go out to the bar and hook up with the first short fat ugly smelly Ford Fiesta driving but nice guy you run into, and prove me wrong.

 

[TurboK9]

That is completely not true.

Maybe not always, but it is on a one night stand with a stranger!

 

[vraiblonde]

The reason you see hot babes with guys YOU consider dumpy is A)because you are not that hot babe, so your tastes are different and about 20 years or more out of date, and B) the guys you consider 'hot' are likely stuck on themselves, and thus terrified of rejection by default, so they go for the girls hot enough to be acceptable to their friends but normal enough to likely not turn them down.

Frugly guys ain't got nothing to loose. Dollar to donuts says they had known those girls for some time before the first date, too.

So, how many frugly men have you spotted at the bar or grocery store and wanted to take home because they were 'nice'? Give me a break. I know a lot of guys who married women they wouldn't have 'picked up'. They got to know 'em. This isn't about that, it's about 'shopping', and women are just as big on looks as men when it comes to actively looking. You all don't hook up with men that are 'ugh' at first in a bar or whatever any more than men hook up with women whose physical appearance is 'ugh' to them.

What you all do is biatch about men being so shallow when you all are attracted to a guy who disses you. Rather than get your butt in gear and purty up, you take the low road and make statements like "how shallow, looks aren't important", or some such other nonsense, and get all butt hurt. Then you run around mocking any man who doesn't meet your standards when they approach you. Women shoot down men all the time who approach them based on anything from how they dress to what cologne they are wearing and what car they drive.

Go out to the bar and hook up with the first short fat ugly smelly Ford Fiesta driving but nice guy you run into, and prove me wrong.

Uh....yeah.

You either live a weird life, hang out with weird people, or watch too much TV. Or you just simply have mental issues and have decided to take them out on me.

Either way, go #### yourself.

 

[lnmarsh]

Oh goodness...

You completely CAN make love to someones personality

I have become physically attracted to a guy after thinking he was funky looking at first

When ANYONE, male or female, first meets a person, looks count. But the importance of looks diminishes as your relationship with a person continues.

Womens are hotter than mens. Period.

IDK about yall, but money dosnt make me happy. But it sure does pay for all the crap that does!

Did I miss anything???

 

[toppick08]

Oh goodness...

You completely CAN make love to someones personality

I have become physically attracted to a guy after thinking he was funky looking at first

When ANYONE, male or female, first meets a person, looks count. But the importance of looks diminishes as your relationship with a person continues.

Womens are hotter than mens. Period.

IDK about yall, but money dosnt make me happy. But it sure does pay for all the crap that does!

Did I miss anything???

 

[ArkRescue]

Hmm I think Turbo is exhibiting to us via his responses just how SHALLOW he can be? Hmm.

That is completely not true.

 

[TurboK9]

Oh goodness...

You completely CAN make love to someones personality

I have become physically attracted to a guy after thinking he was funky looking at first

When ANYONE, male or female, first meets a person, looks count. But the importance of looks diminishes as your relationship with a person continues.

Womens are hotter than mens. Period.

IDK about yall, but money dosnt make me happy. But it sure does pay for all the crap that does!

Did I miss anything???

Yes, you did. They aren't talking about falling for someone you have gotten to know.

They are talking about when actively looking, when you walk into a room say, and you scout the room for a potential mate, you are not looking around going 'ding' there is a really sweet honest guy who cares if he has bad teeth and a combover! No, you evaluate the men on appearance, whether it is raw looks, how he dresses, etc. JUST like men evaluate women in the same situation.

This self-righteous mumbo jumbo about how looks don't matter is a load of crap in that case, and ya'all know it. I hear women mock men on their appearance all the time, hell, they mock each other!! Sure, if you get to KNOW someone they can grow on you, and that holds true for both men AND women. But, that wasn't what the OP's article was talking about.

 

[TurboK9]

Uh....yeah.

You either live a weird life, hang out with weird people, or watch too much TV. Or you just simply have mental issues and have decided to take them out on me.

Either way, go #### yourself.

Yeah I have mental issues, and I'm taking it out on YOU??

Nice.

No wierd life. I just have ears.

Again, they aren't talking about men who are taking their time, maybe suddenly discover they have feelings for someone over time... They are talking about men going out, looking, say on a Saturday night. You talk like you go out looking to meet a guy and you brush right past physical appearance. I'm simply raising my flag, because we all know that when you are out on a 'manhunt' you aren't walking into the room and seeing personality. So yeah, .

 

[TurboK9]

Hmm I think Turbo is exhibiting to us via his responses just how SHALLOW he can be? Hmm.

How about 'honest'? Would you rather I made up a bunch of crap to show you how sensitive and virtuos I can be? I can do that. I just don't like lying.

 

[toppick08]

Best stuff happens..when you ain't lookin'.......for both parties...

 

[TurboK9]

Best stuff happens..when you ain't lookin'.......for both parties...

THAT, I can agree with.

For what it is worth, I can honestly say I have never 'met' a woman in a bar or a club. Every lover I have ever had started out as a friend first.

 

[ArkRescue]

The sad part about picking people by LOOKS alone? You usually discover from talking to them (unless you are shallow or a a one-night-stand-type and therefore don't care) that you wouldn't want to be intimate with them after all. So basically our 1st instinct about what we think we are attracted to physically? Isn't usually what we end up with. And since most women don't JUST meet a person and jump in bed with them ..... the women end up getting to know the men first, so they DO get the opportunity for his personality to turn them on or off.

For most men sex = sex. For most women? Sex = sex plus his personality.

Yes, you did. They aren't talking about falling for someone you have gotten to know.

They are talking about when actively looking, when you walk into a room say, and you scout the room for a potential mate, you are not looking around going 'ding' there is a really sweet honest guy who cares if he has bad teeth and a combover! No, you evaluate the men on appearance, whether it is raw looks, how he dresses, etc. JUST like men evaluate women in the same situation.

This self-righteous mumbo jumbo about how looks don't matter is a load of crap in that case, and ya'all know it. I hear women mock men on their appearance all the time. Sure, if you get to KNOW someone they can grow on you, and that holds true for both men AND women. But, that wasn't what the OP's article was talking about.

 

[thurley42]

The sad part about picking people by LOOKS alone? You usually discover from talking to them (unless you are shallow or a a one-night-stand-type and therefore don't care) that you wouldn't want to be intimate with them after all. So basically our 1st instinct about what we think we are attracted to physically? Isn't usually what we end up with. And since most women don't JUST meet a person and jump in bed with them ..... the women end up getting to know the men first, so they DO get the opportunity for his personality to turn them on or off.

For most men sex = sex. For most women? Sex = sex plus his personality.

I'm confused....I thought this was a 1 night stand situation....not a relationship thing....

 

[ArkRescue]

Right which shows your interest is purely on a sexual level - no concern for whether the hot chick is a serial killer or a child abuser ..... who cares about THAT petty stuff when all you want to do is .. do her.

How about 'honest'? Would you rather I made up a bunch of crap to show you how sensitive and virtuos I can be? I can do that. I just don't like lying.

 

[ArkRescue]

I'm confused....I thought this was a 1 night stand situation....not a relationship thing....

 

[toppick08]

The sad part about picking people by LOOKS alone? You usually discover from talking to them (unless you are shallow or a a one-night-stand-type and therefore don't care) that you wouldn't want to be intimate with them after all. So basically our 1st instinct about what we think we are attracted to physically? Isn't usually what we end up with. And since most women don't JUST meet a person and jump in bed with them ..... the women end up getting to know the men first, so they DO get the opportunity for his personality to turn them on or off.

For most men sex = sex. For most women? Sex = sex plus his personality.[/QUOTE]

and ripping his heart out when he gets too close..Women are far more nasty in this category and don't really know men.......they just think they do.

 

[TurboK9]

I'm confused....I thought this was a 1 night stand situation....not a relationship thing....

Not necessarily a one night stand, but how men 'pick' a potential mate.

What all the people here seem to be missing is we all do pretty much the same thing. When you hang with Fat Joe or Big Eared Betty or Stinky Larry for months as buddies, and they grow on you, and eventually you develop a long, lasting, loving relationship, that is not a 'picked' mate. That is one that snuck up on you. To try to apply that as some sort of symbol that you don't consider looks important is .