Men Look for Good Bodies in Short-Term Mates .....

[TurboK9]

Right which shows your interest is purely on a sexual level - no concern for whether the hot chick is a serial killer or a child abuser ..... who cares about THAT petty stuff when all you want to do is .. do her.

And that is EXACTLY what the article is referring too. That initial 'pick up'. Why did you post that article if you were going to turn it into something else?

Both men and women do exactly what you describe all the time anyway. I think it's hysterical that women try to put it all on men... if they are going home with someone, than that woman is doing the same dang thing, isn't she?

Takes two to do the horizontal mambo.

 

[thurley42]

And that is EXACTLY what the article is referring too. That initial 'pick up'. Why did you post that article if you were going to turn it into something else?

Both men and women do exactly what you describe all the time anyway. I think it's hysterical that women try to put it all on men... if they are going home with someone, than that woman is doing the same dang thing, isn't she?

Takes two to do the horizontal mambo.

women hook up just as much as guys do if not more....they control the booty...they are just better at keeping it on the down low....

 

[toppick08]

women hook up just as much as guys do if not more....they control the booty...they are just better at keeping it on the down low....

 

[FED_UP]

I think I will open up two stores, one where men can purchase a lady and one where ladies can purchase a men. Their will be an ugly section, fine section, fat section, skinny section and a free section because no body is going to want that. Pay by the hour, weeks, days, months, minutes. There will be a special section in the mens store for ladies who like extra long muscle and for ladies store for men who like 38c and up.

 

[thurley42]

I think I will open up two stores, one where men can purchase a lady and one where ladies can purchase a men. Their will be an ugly section, fine section, fat section, skinny section and a free section because no body is going to want that. Pay by the hour, weeks, days, months, minutes. There will be a special section in the mens store for ladies who like extra long muscle and for ladies store for men who like 38c and up.

it's called the red light district in Amsterdam bro..

 

[lnmarsh]

Yes, you did. They aren't talking about falling for someone you have gotten to know.

They are talking about when actively looking, when you walk into a room say, and you scout the room for a potential mate, you are not looking around going 'ding' there is a really sweet honest guy who cares if he has bad teeth and a combover! No, you evaluate the men on appearance, whether it is raw looks, how he dresses, etc. JUST like men evaluate women in the same situation.

Turbo. That’s kind of what this part covered:

When ANYONE, male or female, first meets a person, looks count. But the importance of looks diminishes as your relationship with a person continues.

I didn’t miss anything

and ripping his heart out when he gets too close..Women are far more nasty in this category and don't really know men.......they just think they do.

Oh puhleese. Lets not open that can of worms

 

[toppick08]

I think I will open up two stores, one where men can purchase a lady and one where ladies can purchase a men. Their will be an ugly section, fine section, fat section, skinny section and a free section because no body is going to want that. Pay by the hour, weeks, days, months, minutes. There will be a special section in the mens store for ladies who like extra long muscle and for ladies store for men who like 38c and up.

Where's the ass dept. ?

 

[ArkRescue]

The fast men are taking home the same group of fast women (over and over), the rest of us are not that fast ...... I guess it's good that men don't mind sharing the fast women ....

and the article was juts a jumping off point so we could discuss relationships again - duh - it all comes back to that you know?

And that is EXACTLY what the article is referring too. That initial 'pick up'. Why did you post that article if you were going to turn it into something else?

Both men and women do exactly what you describe all the time anyway. I think it's hysterical that women try to put it all on men... if they are going home with someone, than that woman is doing the same dang thing, isn't she?

Takes two to do the horizontal mambo.

 

[ArkRescue]

You'd have a very popular store .....

I think I will open up two stores, one where men can purchase a lady and one where ladies can purchase a men. Their will be an ugly section, fine section, fat section, skinny section and a free section because no body is going to want that. Pay by the hour, weeks, days, months, minutes. There will be a special section in the mens store for ladies who like extra long muscle and for ladies store for men who like 38c and up.

 

[thurley42]

The fast men are taking home the same group of fast women (over and over), the rest of us are not that fast ...... I guess it's good that men don't mind sharing the fast women ....

and the article was juts a jumping off point so we could discuss relationships again - duh - it all comes back to that you know?

annnnd on that note....back to the alien thread..haha

 

[TurboK9]

The fast men are taking home the same group of fast women (over and over), the rest of us are not that fast ...... I guess it's good that men don't mind sharing the fast women ....

and the article was juts a jumping off point so we could discuss relationships again - duh - it all comes back to that you know?

I've never taken a woman home from a bar.

Guess what. It's the same group of fast men too. See? I'M supposedly the one with mental issues, but here you are cracking on ALL men, based on the actions of a few. Yet, you defend the women, who are doing the EXACT. SAME. THING.

NICE!

 

[FED_UP]

Where's the ass dept. ?

Oh yea one of the most important sections silly me.

The club/bar process is when a man enters the establishment he looks for the hottest and finest chick first. Like InMarch for example If we see we don't have a chance with that we step it down to next lower notch, and so on and so on. But if you get to the bottom of the barrel you have a choice take it home or get your hand lotion out when you get home.

 

[ArkRescue]

I am NOT the one who said you had mental issues ... but do you?

I said "fast men" not ALL men - see how you twist things to suit yourself? Now I say this - get to your local bar and see what's available ... LOL I've never met anyone at a bar either that I've been "fast" with - so there

I've never taken a woman home from a bar.

Guess what. It's the same group of fast men too. See? I'M supposedly the one with mental issues, but here you are cracking on ALL men, based on the actions of a few. Yet, you defend the women, who are doing the EXACT. SAME. THING.

NICE!

 

[Pete]

Umm. No. why would I do that?

So I can make a judgement about which one of you stooped. :shrug:

 

[RoseRed]

So I can make a judgement about which one of you stooped. :shrug:

 

[Toxick]

Fellas, let me pose THIS question: what do YOU notice FIRST about a woman? Eyes? Legs? etc.?

I hate that question.


What I notice about a woman first has nothing to do with how much of a perv or a gentleman I am... or even what my proclivities are. What I notice first has a lot to do with the woman's placement and orientation in relation to me, and what she's wearing.

For instance, if I'm in a store, and a woman comes up behind me and asks if I can reach the detergent on the top shelf, the first thing I notice is the color of her hair. Why? Because she's probably way shorter than I am, and as I turn around, the top of her head is the part that will be most visible to me.

If I'm at the beach, and I'm facing the surf, and a woman walks by, I'm probably going to notice her legs and butt first. That is the part that is most visible to me.


Through no fault of my own, neither of these situations allow me to notice a woman's eyes first.

 

[FED_UP]

Where's the ass dept. ?

I hate that question.


What I notice about a woman first has nothing to do with how much of a perv or a gentleman I am... or even what my proclivities are. What I notice first has a lot to do with the woman's placement and orientation in relation to me, and what she's wearing.

For instance, if I'm in a store, and a woman comes up behind me and asks if I can reach the detergent on the top shelf, the first thing I notice is the color of her hair. Why? Because she's probably way shorter than I am, and as I turn around, the top of her head is the part that will be most visible to me.

If I'm at the beach, and I'm facing the surf, and a woman walks by, I'm probably going to notice her legs and butt first. That is the part that is most visible to me.


Through no fault of my own, neither of these situations allow me to notice a woman's eyes first.

Butt or breast and curves, what ever is available to view first. It favors to walk past a lady because you can see her breast size first and if no one is looking you can turn your head and check her butt out too. We can just say B and B process for short

 

[toppick08]

Oh yea one of the most important sections silly me.

The club/bar process is when a man enters the establishment he looks for the hottest and finest chick first. Like InMarch for example If we see we don't have a chance with that we step it down to next lower notch, and so on and so on. But if you get to the bottom of the barrel you have a choice take it home or get your hand lotion out when you get home.

I don't do bars...........but have done a few on them.

 

[vraiblonde]

Through no fault of my own, neither of these situations allow me to notice a woman's eyes first.

Pig. You're supposed to be wondering if she has a great personality or not.

Seriously, though, many men who have a hard time scoring with women think it's because they aren't Biff Malibu with good looks and a smokin' bod. That's typically not true - typically it's because they're an azzhole who doesn't know how to act in public or how to treat women.

There are tons of men who aren't all that in the looks dept., yet they score with the honeys with no problem. I can name two that I know personally right off the top of my head. And since typing that, I thought of three or four more.

So if women are dissing you, guess what, buddy? It's not your looks or body that are the problem.

 

[Toxick]

you are not looking around going 'ding' there is a really sweet honest guy who cares if he has bad teeth and a combover!

Y'know.... I have heard more women giggling and laughing at a dude with bad teeth and a combover than I've seen reaching for his junk.

This self-righteous mumbo jumbo about how looks don't matter is a load of crap in that case, and ya'all know it.

Well, I think the conclusion is: Looks do matter... but bad looks are not insurmountable if a guy has personality.

I hear women mock men on their appearance all the time, hell, they mock each other!!

This is true. Chicks can be vicious.