Question for the men...
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That is very true. It's also true a woman can do the same for a man.Ken King said:
Attraction to me is much more than physical. It's also a mental attraction based on common interests, compatibility, the ability to laugh together, sharing emotions, being able to talk to each other, and a thousand other things. It's having trust in a person to give your love unconditionally and without reservation and having it returned. It is simply the greatest gift one person can give another.
kwillia
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Here's an example of a relationship built on a faulty foundation... Let it go 'Me' ... 'friendship' without 'the spark' doesn't last...
Why?
Me -- Wednesday, 27 July 2005, at 12:31 p.m.
I dont even know if you will even read this but i thought that i would at least give it a try. I thought that i gave you everything and i always thought that i was a nice to you as i could be. I tried to be the best girlfriend that i could be to you. I keep thinking back at everything and you never seemed that unhappy. I dont think that you changed me, i think that you made me a better person. I still dont understand everything, every relationship has its arguments, and problems but their was also A LOT of great times. Why the sudden change and everything i mean everything has seemed fine!! I wish there was something i could do. I loved you with all my heart!! Please think about everthing.. Why? Everytime i close my eyes i see your smile, i just wish i could hold you one last time...
Why?
Me -- Wednesday, 27 July 2005, at 12:31 p.m.
I dont even know if you will even read this but i thought that i would at least give it a try. I thought that i gave you everything and i always thought that i was a nice to you as i could be. I tried to be the best girlfriend that i could be to you. I keep thinking back at everything and you never seemed that unhappy. I dont think that you changed me, i think that you made me a better person. I still dont understand everything, every relationship has its arguments, and problems but their was also A LOT of great times. Why the sudden change and everything i mean everything has seemed fine!! I wish there was something i could do. I loved you with all my heart!! Please think about everthing.. Why? Everytime i close my eyes i see your smile, i just wish i could hold you one last time...
Triggerfish
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CityGrl said:
I don't think men are as worried about choices thinning out. I may be wrong but I notice more older men with younger women than the other way around. Plus men can have kids even if they're old enough to be great-grandfathers. So no internal clock ticking.
Triggerfish
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Oysters are nasty. If I want a fried loogie, I'll spit in a frying pan.
Did ya know that a young oyster is called a spat?
Did ya know that a young oyster is called a spat?
fttrsbeerwench
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EHARMONY SUCKS!
I put an add up there once... I immediatly got an email from them stating that, " At this time, we could not find a match for you. Keep you head up and we will inform you the minute someone compatible registers."
After they promised...
Out of millions of poeple
They fix up everyone, but told me that there's no one for me in the whole wide world.
By the way, I'm chubby.
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I put an add up there once... I immediatly got an email from them stating that, " At this time, we could not find a match for you. Keep you head up and we will inform you the minute someone compatible registers."
After they promised...
Out of millions of poeple
They fix up everyone, but told me that there's no one for me in the whole wide world.
By the way, I'm chubby.
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Oz
You're all F'in Mad...
CityGrl said:
I want to post something funny, but since this thread seems to be answered mostly by chicks, married older men and RoseRed's posse, here's my male perspective at mid-30's and separated.
It may not be completely superficial. This is somewhat traditionalist, so I don't mean any slight to the upwardly mobile women here. I was always under the impression that women want a husband who will be loyal and dedicated to them, work hard to provide a good living situation, and stick around to raise children with them.
Men can be concerned about the same things. What if he falls in love with an overweight woman. Could he be a widower at an early age, raising children by himself? I'd ask myself that question.
Physical attraction is important but it's also superficial. Mental attraction is far more stimulating during the times when you aren't getting hot and sticky. We men are generally dogs. But we don't have to accept that rap all of the time.
