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[hvp05]

Those like "BSG" have probably never had a real hardship in their entire lives.

They are spoiled and pampered brats that preach their privledged and pompous opinions to brag of her superiorities.

Your astounding hypocrisy never ceases. You know nothing about her, but you hesitate not one moment to insult her - just as you do anyone that you do not like or that proves you wrong.

You are also quite a braggart in your own right. Only you brag about your complete failings as a father, politician and general human - which, contrary to your perception of reality, are not appealing to others. You believe you are superior to everyone with whom you do not agree; something you have indicated several times.

It is hard to tolerate.

Does the P in JPC stand for "pot"? (That can be interpreted a couple ways, both are suitable.)

I had agreements later with other women so I am guilty too.

Is "agreements" the word you are now using to describe giving women drugs and/or alcohol and having sex with them (as you said here)?


You should enlighten those who do not better know you about how you consider two people married even after the evil government has granted them a divorce, and how that makes any new spouse an "outsider" and "adulterer". That point has, not surprisingly, been confusing for many.

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

They didn't "throw her away" - she walked away on her own volition.
What part of that isn't straight up comprehensible English?

Because no mom has two kids and just walks away.

Pretending that other parents are cold animals is never true.

The mom had some BIG reason not to be there and I feel certain in declaring that hubby knows full well what reason.

The new wife and replacement mom might not know but to then degrade the real mom without the real mom around is dealing with slander and lies.

All children have a true need for each of their real parents and pretending otherwise is just vicious mean.

So it is not a matter of comprehending english as it is a question of understanding humanity.

 

[vraiblonde]

So it is not a matter of comprehending english as it is a question of understanding humanity.

Well, you'd be the king of that

Anyway, you're just making this nonsensical argument to stir up reaction and keep the attention coming. You know damn well that moms walk away and can indeed be cold-hearted animals. I give you Andrea Yates as a sterling example, and can cite more if you need me to.

 

[terbear1225]

Because no mom has two kids and just walks away.

Pretending that other parents are cold animals is never true.

The mom had some BIG reason not to be there and I feel certain in declaring that hubby knows full well what reason.

The new wife and replacement mom might not know but to then degrade the real mom without the real mom around is dealing with slander and lies.

All children have a true need for each of their real parents and pretending otherwise is just vicious mean.

So it is not a matter of comprehending english as it is a question of understanding humanity.

really, does that include yours JPC?

 

[RoseRed]

You know damn well that moms walk away and can indeed be cold-hearted animals. I give you Andrea Yates as a sterling example, and can cite more if you need me to.

Don't forget Susan Smith.

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

You know damn well that moms walk away and can indeed be cold-hearted animals.

No, I do not find that to be true or correct at all.

In fact I find it to never ever be true of moms or of dads.

There is always some over-riding force that pushes the parent(s) into the wrongdoing.

That was my point of never having experienced any real hardships because that makes the braggard as alway big tough talking until the time of trial comes and then people do what they must.

After experiencing the trials of hardships then the bragging ends and a healthy humility steps in.

I give you Andrea Yates as a sterling example, and can cite more if you need me to.

It is easier to denounce parents that are far away and can not talk back, but Andre Yates is not a worthy example of cold-hearted parent because she has been found to be mentally impaired and her husband and father of the kids does stand by the woman telling us all that the slander is not true.

It is in experiencing true hardships that makes a person wiser, and that is why I tell you and others to compare the accused persons with our-selves and with other persons that we know personally because other people in the news and other parents on the other side of the earth are each just simple human beings with feelings just like ourselves.

Thus no mom and no dad walks away nor does harm to their own children without some powerful force working to make it happen, and that is the reality of humanity and not the demonized strangers in the news reports.

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

really, does that include yours JPC?

Of course it is true for me too,

and I have terrible regrets that I was not there for my own son when he was growing up.

Even now I try to repent of my own mistakes and my own failures always haunt me.

I have found that being a parent never ends - till death do we part.

That is why I suggest even now to step-parents like "BSG" that the children still do need their real mom still now today and for each tomorrow and it is the step parent that has the power to make it happen or not.

 

[BS Gal]

Of course it is true for me too,

and I have terrible regrets that I was not there for my own son when he was growing up.

Even now I try to repent of my own mistakes and my own failures always haunt me.

I have found that being a parent never ends - till death do we part.

That is why I suggest even now to step-parents like "BSG" that the children still do need their real mom still now today and for each tomorrow and it is the step parent that has the power to make it happen or not.

I guess I could hire a detective agency and track her down. I'll start with the bars in the west.

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

I guess I could hire a detective agency and track her down. I'll start with the bars in the west.

The Bars make sense because it is most likely the mom is very depressed and troubled by loosing her children.

No one ever forgets, and even saying they "do not care" is a self-lie meaning they feel powerless.

The final point always remains true - that hubby always knows where they be.

 

[This_person]

You know damn well that moms walk away and can indeed be cold-hearted animals. I give you Andrea Yates as a sterling example, and can cite more if you need me to.

It's easier for some to blame "other factors" rather than own up to their own lack of responsibility. If the reason that people walk away is that they have no other choice, than they need not ever feel any guilt for their horrendous actions. So, instead of facing reality, they argue that there was no other choice, and transfer that excuse to others.

 

[BS Gal]

The Bars make sense because it is most likely the mom is very depressed and troubled by loosing her children.

No one ever forgets, and even saying they "do not care" is a self-lie meaning they feel powerless.

The final point always remains true - that hubby always knows where they be.

The kids are not kids anymore. They are in their 30's.

 

[vraiblonde]

The kids are not kids anymore. They are in their 30's.

Give up. JPC lives in his own little world and nothing you say or do will change his "mind".

You do not have to defend yourself. You are an admirable person, and the sneerings of a kook shouldn't even register with you.

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

The kids are not kids anymore. They are in their 30's.

I do not approve of calling the step parents as "mom" or as "dad" because it is not true and pretending an untruth will always create confusions.

But what about the real grandparents?

and the kids aunts and uncles and cousins on the mom's side?

Are the mom's extended family accused of deserting the children too?

The time does not run out just because the kids are grown.

If the real mom and her family are in another town or another State then daddy must have moved the kids.

So did anyone report the children's welfare to the mom's family?

Did anyone send a picture or two? give them a contact address? or anything?

It seems that many step parents just do not ask any questions so there needs to be no answers.

That is stealing the children.

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

Give up. JPC lives in his own little world and nothing you say or do will change his "mind".

You do not have to defend yourself. You are an admirable person, and the sneerings of a kook shouldn't even register with you.

Better a "sneering kook" then a cold hearted snake.

But what about the woman that started this thread?

She loves her children and lost them to the dad,

so is she a kook too? I have no objection to me being seen as a kook.

When you keep shutting the door to other people then it is you that gets locked in.

 

[bcp]

A lot of posters on here preach like they are so much better then other people.

Those like "BSG" have probably never had a real hardship in their entire lives.

They are spoiled and pampered brats that preach their privledged and pompous opinions to brag of her superiorities.

It is hard to tolerate.

its those motorcycle people I tell you. all of them the same.

I personally would take the advice from someone that has been in jail for non support over someone that showed responsibility in their life in a matter such as this.

 

[vraiblonde]

When you keep shutting the door to other people then it is you that gets locked in.

I will happily lock myself in, then.

 

[vraiblonde]

Better a "sneering kook" then a cold hearted snake.

I hope, sir, that you are not referring to BSGal as a "cold hearted snake" because she is one of the warmest and most loving people I have ever had the pleasure to know. We should all be as generous as this woman, and take a page from her book on how to be a better person.

You, JPC, are not fit to lick her boots, and that's the truth.

 

[hvp05]

You, JPC, are not fit to lick her boots, and that's the truth.

I'd say not fit to eat the dirt she just walked on with her boots, but vrai's is good enough.

JPC seems to be trying especially hard at agitating the crowd on this one.

Yet he's too much of a puss to respond to some posts, like mine.

JPC, you should be glad this is only a forum discussion; if this group was gathered at a table I have a feeling your nuts would have been relocated to your throat by now.

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

JPC, you should be glad this is only a forum discussion; if this group was gathered at a table I have a feeling your nuts would have been relocated to your throat by now.

I agree and I do see the irony of it too.

When you do not have the violence to make yourselves right then you have little else.

The name calling and slanders are very limited when it is not backed up by some physical violence to forcibly shut up those that tell you that you are wrong.

So the Internet does give one like me a powerful option against the brutes and the lynch mob.

Here on an Internet Forum the words and posts rule over threats and petty intimidations.

I say any cold hearted snake can be recognized by how they squirm, hvp.

 

[julz20684]

You are SUCH a friggin idiot. I didn't "take" someone else's husband. They were divorced when I met him and he had the kids she had abandoned. She did not contact the children or see them. She was too busy partying. And we did make our own baby. Ever dealt with children that have been abandoned by their own mother/father? Not pretty. Lots and lots of emotional issues. All you can do is try to give them the love they are missing from their natural parent. Children that have been abandoned have very special needs. Course, you wouldn't care about that because you were the abandoner.

I'll play with you for awhile because I'm bored, but then I'll have to put you back on iggy.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to BS Gal again.