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[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

He's SSI. I'm trying to translate into readable, understable, simple English, the www.ssa.gov website convoluted linguistic triangular, circular lexicon.

If he is on SSI or SSDI then he does not need child support at all as he and the child will have everything they need and very much more.

And paying the c/s will mess with the SSI benefits but it will not hurt him or the child.

The only problem arrises when the custodial mis-uses the money to buy for them self and not for the child(ren).

 

[BS Gal]

A lot of posters on here preach like they are so much better then other people.

Those like "BSG" have probably never had a real hardship in their entire lives.

They are spoiled and pampered brats that preach their privledged and pompous opinions to brag of her superiorities.

It is hard to tolerate.

Unfortunately, JPC, that is not the case. My hubby's ex-wife took off and left two children. WE supported them without any help from his DEAD BEAT wife. I raised them as my own. The natural mother did not step up to the plate to help one bit, either financially or emotionally. Sound familiar??????????? It should. She is just like you. Now go ahead and defend her.

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

Unfortunately, JPC, that is not the case. My hubby's ex-wife took off and left two children. WE supported them without any help from his DEAD BEAT wife. I raised them as my own. The natural mother did not step up to the plate to help one bit, either financially or emotionally. Sound familiar??????????? It should. She is just like you. Now go ahead and defend her.

This is what I mean that you preach like a spoiled brat.

You took some other woman's husband and her kids and preach like you had some hardship.

You took everything and full of blessings and you degrade the real mom at the same time.

I say you do not know what it is to feel real pain, or to experience real hardship.

You preach like a spoiled pampered brat that has had it privleged and care free your entire life.

Why not go get your own husband and make your own babies and have some other woman degrade you while she steals your family as you did to that mom.

 

[BS Gal]

This is what I mean that you preach like a spoiled brat.

You took some other woman's husband and her kids and preach like you had some hardship.

You took everything and full of blessings and you degrade the real mom at the same time.

I say you do not know what it is to feel real pain, or to experience real hardship.

You preach like a spoiled pampered brat that has had it privleged and care free your entire life.

Why not go get your own husband and make your own babies and have some other woman degrade you while she steals your family as you did to that mom.

You are SUCH a friggin idiot. I didn't "take" someone else's husband. They were divorced when I met him and he had the kids she had abandoned. She did not contact the children or see them. She was too busy partying. And we did make our own baby. Ever dealt with children that have been abandoned by their own mother/father? Not pretty. Lots and lots of emotional issues. All you can do is try to give them the love they are missing from their natural parent. Children that have been abandoned have very special needs. Course, you wouldn't care about that because you were the abandoner.

I'll play with you for awhile because I'm bored, but then I'll have to put you back on iggy.

 

[aps45819]

You took some other woman's husband and her kids and preach like you had some hardship.

hussy

 

[BS Gal]

hussy

 

[vraiblonde]

Those like "BSG" have probably never had a real hardship in their entire lives.

They are spoiled and pampered brats that preach their privledged and pompous opinions to brag of her superiorities.

Wait a minute, boss. People make their own luck and hardship. If you make bad decisions to screw yourself up, then you've created your own hardship and nuts to you.

If BSGal has never had any real hardship in her life, that could possibly be because she doesn't do dumb things to mess up her life. And I hardly think you can disparage her for taking in children that are not her own and raising them as a mother, when their own mother ditched them.

And furthermore, she did not steal some other woman's husband. That woman threw her husband away, and BSGal merely said, "Since you don't want that anymore, I'll take it."

So ex-wife made a bad decision. BSGal made a good one. So who deserves the hardship?

 

[Mikeinsmd]

A lot of posters on here preach like they are so much better then other people.

And posters like you solidify the fact that we are.

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

Wait a minute, boss. People make their own luck and hardship. If you make bad decisions to screw yourself up, then you've created your own hardship and nuts to you.

If BSGal has never had any real hardship in her life, that could possibly be because she doesn't do dumb things to mess up her life. And I hardly think you can disparage her for taking in children that are not her own and raising them as a mother, when their own mother ditched them.

And furthermore, she did not steal some other woman's husband. That woman threw her husband away, and BSGal merely said, "Since you don't want that anymore, I'll take it."

So ex-wife made a bad decision. BSGal made a good one. So who deserves the hardship?

I can understand you defending the woman,

but all that "he did / she did" and "he said / she said" is stuff you made up out of nothing.

What it does say is that the husband and "BSG" threw the real mom away.

So the truth of the "BSG" story is called adultery.

 

[Mikeinsmd]

I can understand you defending the woman,

but all that "he did / she did" and "he said / she said" is stuff you made up out of nothing.

What it does say is that the husband and "BSG" threw the real mom away.

So the truth of the "BSG" story is called adultery.

Jebus effing christ you are a moron.
Do you even read what people post?? BS met the man AFTER he was divorced from the loser wife.

Threw her away??? She wouldn't have anything to do with her children.

You are an annoying form of entertainment.

 

[BS Gal]

I can understand you defending the woman,

but all that "he did / she did" and "he said / she said" is stuff you made up out of nothing.

What it does say is that the husband and "BSG" threw the real mom away.

So the truth of the "BSG" story is called adultery.

Um, the wife left. She wasn't thrown away. So did your wife commit adultery when she divorced your sorry butt?

 

[MMDad]

So the truth of the "BSG" story is called adultery.

Your retarded brain is writing checks your decrepit azz can't cash. At the rate you're going, you'll be lucky if you survive long enough to lose the primary.

 

[onebdzee]

Um, the wife left. She wasn't thrown away. So did your wife commit adultery when she divorced your sorry butt?

as I recall....his wife divorced his sorry ass and found a real man that could take care of her AND his son

 

[JPC sr]

Scofflaw and Personal Responsibility.

Um, the wife left. She wasn't thrown away.

You said kids with the plural "s" so she stayed long enough that hubby knew where she was and how to find her all along and still does.

Just the way it goes.

So did your wife commit adultery when she divorced your sorry butt?

I suppose that is true but she did not know that and I had agreements later with other women so I am guilty too.

My point is that you were preaching how moms that loose their children are so much inferior to your royal highness and so I was pointing out that your bragging and degrading other moms was not very pretty of you.

 

[onebdzee]

You said kids with the plural "s" so she stayed long enough that hubby knew where she was and how to find her all along and still does.

Just the way it goes. I suppose that is true but she did not know that and I had agreements later with other women so I am guilty too.

My point is that you were preaching how moms that loose their children are so much inferior to your royal highness and so I was pointing out that your bragging and degrading other moms was not very pretty of you.

You really do need to stop twisting everyones words around....BS Gal clearly stated that the mother of those children DIVORCED their dad and LEFT

BS Gal did not commit adultery.... you can't commit adultery if you aren't married....he divorced his first wife BEFORE BS Gal was even in the picture

My personal opinion is that BS Gal should be crown "your royal highness" just as all those other people out there that take on someone elses responsibility of raising their....She(as well as everyone else that did/does it) didn't have to do it....she could have been just like their real mother and walked away from them....She didn't!

She should be commended for that....she has earned the title "mom"

 

[Inkpen]

This is better than pre season football!!!!

BSG "MOM" :7
JPC sr: Zero

What quarter is this?

Here are the cheerleaders:

 

[BS Gal]

You really do need to stop twisting everyones words around....BS Gal clearly stated that the mother of those children DIVORCED their dad and LEFT

BS Gal did not commit adultery.... you can't commit adultery if you aren't married....he divorced his first wife BEFORE BS Gal was even in the picture

My personal opinion is that BS Gal should be crown "your royal highness" just as all those other people out there that take on someone elses responsibility of raising their....She(as well as everyone else that did/does it) didn't have to do it....she could have been just like their real mother and walked away from them....She didn't!

She should be commended for that....she has earned the title "mom"

They call me "mom."

And ya know what, JPC, it isn't easy raising children, nor is it cheap. I worked from the moment we got married and still do to this day. If they were to call now and need money now, I would send it to them. They have both just purchased homes. We sent them $ to buy something special for their new homes. Would I have liked to stay home with our infant for more than 2 months. You bet! But my stepchildren and our child had financial needs that had to be met (you know food, formula, diapers, vitamins, medical insurance, clothes, school supplies, a house to live in, etc), so back to work I went, unlike you, who depends on the working people to support you.

 

[BS Gal]

I didn't WANT to give my kid up. I made a major mistake, and YES I F'd up. There is no point in reliving my pain for your judgement.

Sorry.

On a nicer note, I hope you get your kid back and un-do the damage that daddy has done. As you can tell by our experience, I have a huge problem with mothers that don't keep their kids. My experience is different than yours, I am assuming, and I apologize for jumping on you.

 

[vraiblonde]

What it does say is that the husband and "BSG" threw the real mom away.

They didn't "throw her away" - she walked away on her own volition. What part of that isn't straight up comprehensible English?

I think BSGal knows a little bit more about her situation than you do.

 

[vraiblonde]

And ya know what, JPC, it isn't easy raising children, nor is it cheap.

Not that JPC would know anything about that.