Say something nice...
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Im_Me
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You are right on that you have to dine with a few toads (though don't necessarily have to kiss them!) to find a "keeper"....... and you have to take an occasional break to save your sanity while you're picking through the reject pool. I just wondered if you really intended to actually say something nice and just forgot?
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Larry Gude
Strung Out
That some sort of French technique????
Toxick
Splat
I'm not sure what the French - or any Yurpeen - view of Toilet-Seat etiquette is...
That's an interesting research project.
MMDad
Lem Putt
I just wondered if you really intended to actually say something nice and just forgot?
Nice is relative. Maybe it was very nice compared to what she could have said.
Hell, I even deleted a lot of my post before I hit the button.
acommondisaster
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I want your husband.
luvmygdaughters
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He makes me laugh, he is unselfish and he's just fun to be around. He does cook occasionally, he will scrub the bathroom floor and he does his own laundry.
withrespect
:wr:
Even more applicable with my current husband.My husband is patient and calm with me. Even when I am all
We balance each other out.He's like Valium... I'm like...well... Red Bull.
Hopefully I don't ever have to find a third husband... if there are three men in this world that would marry my crazy ass then brace yourself... the rapture is coming.
This was a good thread (most of it). My posts still stand, 5 years and thousands of miles later. Monello and I rarely have conflict because neither of us enjoys it. Even on stressful moving days we don't take it out on each other.
One of my favorite things about Monello is that I can ask him nicely to do/not do something....and that's it. I rarely have to ask him twice, and never have to get pissed because I've asked him numerous times and he's agreed but was really ignoring me. It's important to us to make each other happy, especially since what's being asked is typically small and effortless.
Monello likes his t-shirts folded a certain way, so I do it. I've had a couple of fellow laundry-doers ask me why I fold his shirts that way, and the answer is because that's what he wants and it takes me an extra 5 minutes every week or so to make him happy. He (or we) makes up the bed every morning because I like a made bed and it doesn't take him much effort to do it. There's no, "Grrr....I don't want to do this thing...grrrr..." or bitching about it or acting like you're some saint because you do it once. We do it all the time because it's a small thing that makes the other person happy.
That is a lot bigger deal than some people might think.
One of my favorite things about Monello is that I can ask him nicely to do/not do something....and that's it. I rarely have to ask him twice, and never have to get pissed because I've asked him numerous times and he's agreed but was really ignoring me. It's important to us to make each other happy, especially since what's being asked is typically small and effortless.
Monello likes his t-shirts folded a certain way, so I do it. I've had a couple of fellow laundry-doers ask me why I fold his shirts that way, and the answer is because that's what he wants and it takes me an extra 5 minutes every week or so to make him happy. He (or we) makes up the bed every morning because I like a made bed and it doesn't take him much effort to do it. There's no, "Grrr....I don't want to do this thing...grrrr..." or bitching about it or acting like you're some saint because you do it once. We do it all the time because it's a small thing that makes the other person happy.
That is a lot bigger deal than some people might think.
Auntie Biache'
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He hasn't killed my yet.
Auntie Biache'
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We balance each other out.
I branded us Fast Forward and Pause. He's Fast Forward.
I bumped this over 4 years ago. You must have really slow internet in MoCo. How in the world did you think to reply to this thread?Wow, Monello. Blast from the past. I see mamatutu is in the line up. How fun is this! Nice bump. Where is Hank? I miss him so.
That's why I stop and get you a fizzy soda when I go by the C store. Or hot oil, depending on the day.
Funny how often the little things take minimal effort but give the most satisfaction to both parties.
ReadingTheNews
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My husband is the absolute best person I know.
Kinky.
