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Kain99
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Buy the cow... No one deserves their milk for free.camily said:
Think that will discourage him?
SMO: Giving men Ultimatums...
- Thread starter Qurious
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Think that will discourage him?
mainman said:
Women don't propose - men do! It's their job and any woman that proposes, run like hell from her because SHE will be wearing the pants in the family, not you.I'm okay with an ultimatum, but you have to be sure you're going to follow through. "If you do this, I will do that." Nothing wrong with that - simple communication and decision-making. But I can't imagine trying to pressure a guy into marrying me, kids or no kids. I'd be more likely to figure that, after 10 years, if he wanted to marry me, we'd be married. And if he didn't want to marry me, then I probably wouldn't want to be married to him in the long run, either.
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aps45819 said:
Midnightrider
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any woman that proposes to me better come with a big azzed diamond ring!!!
Everytime i have gotten an ultimatum from a woman, i have sent her packing, and everytime i have given a woman one she has hit the road. So i say no ultimatums, talk it out, and if you can't come to a comprimise then split- thats where its heading anyway.
Everytime i have gotten an ultimatum from a woman, i have sent her packing, and everytime i have given a woman one she has hit the road. So i say no ultimatums, talk it out, and if you can't come to a comprimise then split- thats where its heading anyway.
sockgirl77
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Could she be friends with this one? http://forums.somd.com/showthread.php?t=63340Qurious said:Honestly I think the end result will not be in your favor. Men are stubbon and full of pride, the last thing they want to do is yield to a woman and your so called "ultimatum":
"It will be 10 years in 2006 that we have been together and not married. We have 2 children who wonder why my last name isn't their last name. Either you put a ring on my finger by Xmas or you go your way and I'll go mine."
Keep in mind this woman does not know how to cook, she doesn't clean and she doesn't polish him off. Yet she feels she is in the right because of the time she invested with him (10 years) to give him an ultimatum.
Thoughts, comments?
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Kain99
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Uh Oh MM..... I think maybe they realizing you don't own any pants!mainman said:Errrrrrrrrrr shut up and make me some more crab dip...
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Vixen
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vraiblonde said:
I proposed to my husband and I don't wear the pants in the family. anymore
But I'm
with that. :shrug:He wanted to move into together, and I said I wouldn't live with anyone unless we were married. Then I asked do you want to get married? He said sure.
I think this women with 2 kids from a man she isn't married to is a retard. You go in ass backwards having kids first then getting married is just asking for trouble IMO.
citysherry
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vraiblonde said:
What's wrong with that?
mainman said:Errrrrrrrrrr shut up and make me some more crab dip...
Qurious
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