cattitude
My Sweetest Boy
DoWhat said::toasteroven:
It was my idea first. I even marked my territory.
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All of themK_Jo said:Gawd, Vrai. How many do you need?
With pics, no less!cattitude said:I even marked my territory.
You pee'd on Mrs. What?cattitude said:It was my idea first. I even marked my territory.
vraiblonde said:Bres, even deciding to BE in a relationship involves an ultimatum - some things are just non-negotiable. "If you abuse drugs, I will not get involved with you." "If you continue to see other women, I will not see you myself."
I like an ultimatum and would have appreciated it if more of the guys I dated had been honest enough to issue one instead of dicking around. "If you continue to smoke, I will move on" instead of "Oh no, honey - smoking doesn't bother me *cough cough*"
Ultimatums say there will be consequences for your actions and behavior. Then it's up to the issuee whether they will accept those terms or not.
K_Jo said:You pee'd on Mrs. What?
cattitude said:No, that's DoWhat's mom.
You already spilled the beans on that situationDoWhat said:
"Does she have a sister".
I have made it known that there will be no dead animal heads hanging in my house... EVER. Should I come home and find Bambi starring at me with glossy marble eyes, Bambi and hubbie's stuff will be out the door immediately. This was a known "mandate" prior to the wedding, and has been a once a year verbal reminder everytime deer fever kicks in. I consider that a "verbal pre nup" rather than an ultimatium, wouldn't you...:shrug:vraiblonde said:Bres, give me an example of what you would consider an ultimatum. Maybe we're talking about different things here.
Telling someone they must do something within a deadline or else there will be consequences.vraiblonde said:Bres, give me an example of what you would consider an ultimatum. Maybe we're talking about different things here.
kwillia said:I have made it known that there will be no dead animal heads hanging in my house... EVER. Should I come home and find Bambi starring at me with glossy marble eyes, Bambi and hubbie's stuff will be out the door immediately. This was a known "mandate" prior to the wedding, and has been a once a year verbal reminder everytime deer fever kicks in. I consider that a "verbal pre nup" rather than an ultimatium, wouldn't you...:shrug:
Ahhh good times, good times. Glad it didn't work out though....with both of them the things that charm you in the beginning would drive you nuts in the end.BadGirl said:Bre is holding out for a date with Moon or Chap. Right, Bre?
That one hurt my ribs I laughed so hard.kwillia said::slut:
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Vince said:That one hurt my ribs I laughed so hard.
...but was this a hypothetical situation?migtig said:My ex gave me an ultimatum.
He said, "It's time for you to commit to me or I need to move on."
I said, "Okay then we can move in together."
He said, "No, that's no good enough. I want you to marry me in a church so you will always feel committed to me. I know you well enough to know that you either marry me or I need to go forward with my life without you in it."
Darned if he wasn't right. After much thought and pleading for an extended engagement period (which I didn't get) we got married in a church. I still feel committed to him, and even after an amicable divorce, he still asks me to reconsider marrying him again.
Some people need ultimatums so they can realize how valuable the person in front of them really is. Sorry to say, there are tons of people like me out there who just don't see what's in front of them. :shrug: