Its just getting worse over the years. I always thought things would get better, like you said, I have been a fixture in the child's life. I was wrong! I think it is her mom putting stuff into her head, and dad not wanting to be a displinary parent. I am the only one who wants this kid to have some rules, I was raised where we had to use our manners, respect others, but then again, my parents were married and have been married forever. This little girl is 4.5, but has not ground rules. Husband gets mad sometimes when i try to tell child what to do. I tell him she is going to grow up just like his sister he cannot stand who, now in her 30's, still gets whatever she wants from mom and dad, and relies upon everyone else to do things for her. i am not trying to in any way be mean be to this kid, but all I want is some ground rules, and husband just thinks because kid has two homes, we will never be able to have set rules. I disagree and all it is is getting worse. The past 6 months has been awful.
