What do you do if.....

[Mabus]

Is she REALLY flexible.. like amost double jointed??

Nah, I don't find Gumby attractive. Sorry.

 

[itsbob]

Most likely he's just looking for validation.

Does he have to pay for parking there too??

 

[annemayer]

....you find something in your SO's nightstand drawer that you don't think was previously there? Some sort of lickable massage cream?

SO insists that there is no one else but is becoming more distant and unappreciative.....thoughts?

I'd take it and hide it. See if they ask where it is. If I lost something that wasn't wrong,I'd ask the other person who shares the room.Logical,right? But if it was never meant to be found,I wouldn't say a word.

 

[annemayer]

you could always just take it out of the drawer it was in and put it somewhere else, see if she freaks out. Keep doing this until she confesses or needs a shrink wondering why she keeps misplacing things.

Just saw this. Should have actually read the whole thread...tired..

 

[jen8753]

Hey there stranger

 

[ArkRescue]

If she is seeming distant, and they've only been together a couple/few months, that doesn't sound good.

Oh Lord I saw this and had flashbacks to my "honest opinion and/or insight" thread and just thought DONT DO THIS TO YOURSELF, MABUS!!! These forumites are ANIMALS!!!



But anyway...

Have a heart-to-heart with her. Point out you've been feeling that shes distant, etc. Yall need to get that part straightened out quick.

Also, I agree with a few others that maybe she bought it and was planning on using it on you. If you're really dwelling on it, see how much is in the tube (you've already snooped). If its full, you're OK. If its like half gone... well... :shrug: Maybe its hers. Maybe she got it from a Slumber Party as a door prize, etc. Maybe it was just on sale. Who knows! Just dont jump to conclusions. Go talk to HER about how you're feeling and what you're wondering.

Good luck

hehehehe... crackers.

 

[lnmarsh]

If she is seeming distant, and they've only been together a couple/few months, that doesn't sound good.

Yea I thought about that yesterday after re-reading that they've only been together for such a short amount of time.

:shrug:

 

[ArkRescue]

My theory is that if it starts off rocky (first 6 months) then what are the chances it will be better later? Not high - there are exceptions, but I'm speaking in generalities.

Yea I thought about that yesterday after re-reading that they've only been together for such a short amount of time.

:shrug:

 

[Mabus]

Should be interesting

I'll let you guys know how it went

 

[Toxick]

....you find something in your SO's nightstand drawer that you don't think was previously there? Some sort of lickable massage cream?

There's the catch isn't it...
That #### may be left over from 1996 for all you know.


I would only worry if you discovered His & Her KY Oils, and you're not the "his".





BTW: If someone out there hasn't raw-dogged it with that His & Her stuff, you are missing out on life... go right now to the store. I mean it... go now. And then go #### the #### out of your SO.... you can thank me later.

 

[nomoney]

I'll let you guys know how it went

The anticipation is gonna kill me

 

[ICit]

I'll let you guys know how it went

what are you going to do?


she coming over? or you going over there?

Here... how about if you bring some "fun" lube!! and see how she reacts!

..... good luck and remember ... we are here if you need us!

 

[ICit]

There's the catch isn't it...
That #### may be left over from 1996 for all you know.


I would only worry if you discovered His & Her KY Oils, and you're not the "his".





BTW: If someone out there hasn't raw-dogged it with that His & Her stuff, you are missing out on life... go right now to the store. I mean it... go now. And then go #### the #### out of your SO.... you can thank me later.

 

[lnmarsh]

BTW: If someone out there hasn't raw-dogged it with that His & Her stuff, you are missing out on life... go right now to the store. I mean it... go now. And then go #### the #### out of your SO.... you can thank me later.

o0o0oo0o0 Toxick... You give me dirty thoughts.

The bf is now officially on the top of my To-Do List for 09/10/2010.

 

[ICit]

o0o0oo0o0 Toxick... You give me dirty thoughts.

The bf is now officially on the top of my To-Do List for 09/10/2010.

oohhh is the BF back???

 

[Toxick]

o0o0oo0o0 Toxick... You give me dirty thoughts.

I have that effect on women

 

[lnmarsh]

oohhh is the BF back???

Oh yea hes been back

 

[ICit]

I have that effect on women

 

[ICit]

Oh yea hes been back

 

[ArkRescue]

I have that effect on women