What I hate

[migtig]

I'll have to pay your dental bills soon!

But, who knew? A little more than a year ago I was not looking for a relationship, I was taking care of a terminally ill parent & raising my 2 sons.

And now, look at me!

We are NOT perfect by any means, but it is definitely mindblowing for both of us that it is so wonderful & we are ecstatic about each other.

I'm ecstatic about you two too...in a non kinky way of course. For lack of a better vocabulary at the moment, you two have positive energy and good vibes.

 

[Tilted]

Throwing crockery shows great passion. :shrug: I've always wished I was dramatic enough to throw dishes. Just because.

I once had an ex throw a plate of KFC food against the wall in anger. The chicken wasn't a big deal, it was the mashed potatoes, gravy, and cole slaw that were a pain to clean up - off the wall, out of the carpet, and worst of all off the drywall finished (and unpainted) ceiling.

True story. I still have the faint stain of gravy on a small portion of my bedroom ceiling to prove it.

I had another ex throw some dish (I can't recall what it was specifically) at the refrigerator hard enough to leave a dent in it, the dent is still there. She also punched a hole (more like a large crack) in the drywall, but I was able to fix that fairly easily.


For the record, I myself have never thrown dishes. Or punched the wall. I have thrown pillows, but only at the sofa.

 

[migtig]

I once had an ex throw a plate of KFC food against the wall in anger. The chicken wasn't a big deal, it was the mashed potatoes, gravy, and cole slaw that were a pain to clean up - off the wall, out of the carpet, and worst of all off the drywall finished (and unpainted) ceiling.

True story. I still have the faint stain of gravy on a small portion of my bedroom ceiling to prove it.

I had another ex throw some dish (I can't recall what it was specifically) at the refrigerator hard enough to leave a dent in it, the dent is still there. She also punched a hole (more like a large crack) in the drywall, but I was able to fix that fairly easily.


For the record, I myself have never thrown dishes. Or punched the wall. I have thrown pillows, but only at the sofa.

Wow. You've had some dramatic moments. Impressive.

Okay, I threw a dog off the bed...admittedly I was asleep at the time, and the dog crawled up my chest and got into my face and I was dreaming about a monster trying to get me and awoke in a panic and swatted the dog off the bed.

Who knew 5lb dogs could fly?

Of course, once I realized what I had done, I panicked, cried and went hysterical, woke my husband and double checked my dog for injuries and then cuddled and cooed and babied her for weeks. The guilt. The guilt. I still carry the guilt.

 

[Kris10]

At the end of the day, it's JUST a room. pretty much like rooms in everyone's house. I am sure Bubba ain't the first person to get it on in the oval office. Think about that the next time you're sitting on the sofa at a friends house.

Agreed......and I don't mind sitting on my friends couches but to lay my head down? No thanks

I am not sitting on your and Vrail's sofa anymore.

I think they stopped faking it a few years ago................hehe

 

[Tilted]

Suzy Sunshine you are not.

Hey, hey, hey now. I'm the sunshine-iest person you'd ever meet.

I'll talk about the uglier / less wonderful aspects of reality, but I don't usually internalize them. Can't nuthin' harsh my buzz (not usually anyway). It's all part of the play, and I'm ecstatic to be on the stage.

 

[RoseRed]

I am happy

I met her on Saturday. She is very pretty and seems very nice.

 

[Kris10]

Wow. You've had some dramatic moments. Impressive.

Okay, I threw a dog off the bed...admittedly I was asleep at the time, and the dog crawled up my chest and got into my face and I was dreaming about a monster trying to get me and awoke in a panic and swatted the dog off the bed.

Who knew 5lb dogs could fly?

Of course, once I realized what I had done, I panicked, cried and went hysterical, woke my husband and double checked my dog for injuries and then cuddled and cooed and babied her for weeks. The guilt. The guilt. I still carry the guilt.

My Mom spit in my Dad's face while asleep once. Haha, she was apparently trying to teach me how to spit in her dream. He said he was so caught of guard, he wiped his face and looked at her only to realize she was getting ready to do it again....he woke her up

 

[FED_UP]

My Mom spit in my Dad's face while asleep once. Haha, she was apparently trying to teach me how to spit in her dream. He said he was so caught of guard, he wiped his face and looked at her only to realize she was getting ready to do it again....he woke her up

My sister punched her X in the eye while he was asleep.

 

[Kris10]

My sister punched her X in the eye while he was asleep.

So my Dad should consider himself lucky huh?

 

[frequentflier]

My sister punched her X in the eye while he was asleep.

What good is it to punch someone that is asleep? If I am angry enough to punch someone, I want them to know- and feel it!

 

[Misfit]

My Mom spit in my Dad's face while asleep once. Haha, she was apparently trying to teach me how to spit in her dream. He said he was so caught of guard, he wiped his face and looked at her only to realize she was getting ready to do it again....he woke her up

My ex once nailed me with a full force elbow smash to the bridge of my nose while we were both asleep. I woke up bloodied. Thinking about it now, I wonder if she was really asleep.

 

[RareBreed]

My sister punched her X in the eye while he was asleep.

I did that to my husband once. I was sound asleep and he touched me. I punched and then woke up to find him holding his face and laughing hysterically.

 

[SoMDGirl42]

When you know a couple who seem so perfect; happy and in love; positively doting on each other; always giving each other compliments and telling the world how much they adore each other. You look at them and it gives you hope that there is still that marital bonding left in the world.

Then you find out it was all bull#### and a fake they put on in public, even with their closest friends. You find out he's a douche and she's a #####, and they are finally - after years of torture - splitting up. They haven't even slept in the same bed together in several years.

I freaking hate that.

So you people who are really happy in your marriages, please - I beg you - keep the dream alive for cynics like myself. And if you're not really happy, stop pretending because it pisses everyone off when they find out your marriage is a fraud and you suckered your loved ones into believing you.

Just to put a spin on your thinking........ things can go to hell in a handbasket quick. Example: My ex and I were "that" couple. Everyone said we had the "perfect" marriage. Everyone wanted to be just like us. And for 16 years we did have a wonderful marriage. We were best friends, and everyone knew it. We bought our first home together in May. He threw me a wonderful surprise 30th birthday party with all my friends and family including a Limo. We celebrated our first Christmas in Dec in the new house. He started an affair with "my friend" in January, we were separated in April and divorced two years later. He married HER the day after our divorce was final. So don't judge everyone. They very well may have been that happy loving couple all those years.

 

[Misfit]

Just to put a spin on your thinking........ things can go to hell in a handbasket quick. Example: My ex and I were "that" couple. Everyone said we had the "perfect" marriage. Everyone wanted to be just like us. And for 16 years we did have a wonderful marriage. We were best friends, and everyone knew it. We bought our first home together in May. He threw me a wonderful surprise 30th birthday party with all my friends and family including a Limo. We celebrated our first Christmas in Dec in the new house. He started an affair with "my friend" in January, we were separated in April and divorced two years later. He married HER the day after our divorce was final. So don't judge everyone. They very well may have been that happy loving couple all those years.

Damn....

 

[Kris10]

My sister punched her X in the eye while he was asleep.

Oops, I missed the part where you said HE was asleep...........

My ex once nailed me with a full force elbow smash to the bridge of my nose while we were both asleep. I woke up bloodied. Thinking about it now, I wonder if she was really asleep.

After reading FED_UP's post, I can understand why you might wonder that

 

[withrespect]

Just to put a spin on your thinking........ things can go to hell in a handbasket quick. Example: My ex and I were "that" couple. Everyone said we had the "perfect" marriage. Everyone wanted to be just like us. And for 16 years we did have a wonderful marriage. We were best friends, and everyone knew it. We bought our first home together in May. He threw me a wonderful surprise 30th birthday party with all my friends and family including a Limo. We celebrated our first Christmas in Dec in the new house. He started an affair with "my friend" in January, we were separated in April and divorced two years later. He married HER the day after our divorce was final. So don't judge everyone. They very well may have been that happy loving couple all those years.

I am sorry to hear all this.


I used to hate when my boyfriends would sleep with my friends. It was just something I couldn't get used to.

 

[SoMDGirl42]

Damn....

Yeah. That's what I everyone said! We were big news for quite a while!

and before anyone starts, he's admitted he was happy in our marriage. He wasn't miserable looking for an excuse to split. Just happens, he was a virgin when we got married and my "friend" was a whore that convinced him he didn't know what he had missed out on since he'd never been with anyone else. She had to show him the ropes. His marriage to her has been misery from the start. She's cheated on him several times, and they argue every single day. I'd say that's karma

 

[Kris10]

Just to put a spin on your thinking........ things can go to hell in a handbasket quick. Example: My ex and I were "that" couple. Everyone said we had the "perfect" marriage. Everyone wanted to be just like us. And for 16 years we did have a wonderful marriage. We were best friends, and everyone knew it. We bought our first home together in May. He threw me a wonderful surprise 30th birthday party with all my friends and family including a Limo. We celebrated our first Christmas in Dec in the new house. He started an affair with "my friend" in January, we were separated in April and divorced two years later. He married HER the day after our divorce was final. So don't judge everyone. They very well may have been that happy loving couple all those years.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation but it sounds like the one Vrai mentioned is different...she said they hadn't slept together in years. Either way, I hope your ex and his new wife get crabs in areas they're unable to reach to scratch

 

[Shaolin_Raptor]

There is no perfect relationship. They all have ups and downs; it's how you handle those changes with your partner that makes it work. If you look for perfection, you will always be disappointed.

 

[warneckutz]

I am sorry to hear all this.


I used to hate when my boyfriends would sleep with my friends. It was just something I couldn't get used to.