when is enough......enough

[Chain729]

*ding*

This is why women who think they want to "talk" to their man and "share" their feelings with him are tards. Men do not give a crap about your feelings - they want to solve your problem so you will shut up. Talk to your girlfriends because they feel your pain. Don't bother talking to your man because they will go, "...Huh?....Oh yeah...Right...Uh huh...HOLY ####!!! TOUCHDOWN!!!!! YES!!!!! Now, what were you saying, baby?"

I don't watch sports, hell, I don't even have cable. So it's more like:

Her:
Me: Hang on for a sec, I gotta get Princess...
Me: OK, she's settled. What was that?
Her:
Me: God freakin' damnit!
Her: Yeah, I know. It's bad, huh...
Me: Sorry babe, didn't catch all that. The oil was hot so I dropped the bolt in the oil pan. And I had the pan positioned wrong, so I ended up with my ponytail in a puddle of oil...
Her: Are you OK? Want me to let you go?
Me: Nah, I'm alright. What was your problem again?
Her: Nevermind...

 

[Chain729]

I don't watch sports, hell, I don't even have cable. So it's more like:

Her:
Me: Hang on for a sec, I gotta get Princess...
Me: OK, she's settled. What was that?
Her:
Me: God freakin' damnit!
Her: Yeah, I know. It's bad, huh...
Me: Sorry babe, didn't catch all that. The oil was hot so I dropped the bolt in the oil pan. And I had the pan positioned wrong, so I ended up with my ponytail in a puddle of oil...
Her: Are you OK? Want me to let you go?
Me: Nah, I'm alright. What was your problem again?
Her: Nevermind...

or....

Her: So and so...
Me: Tell 'em to grow up and shove it? :shrug:
Her: Well I did but...
Me: So, if you took care of it, what's your problem again?
Her: Nevermind...

 

[bohman]

I mean, really, at some point sane people get over it. After 6 months of no repeat offenses, if you're still obsessing over an incident, now you're just wacked.

Ya hear that, Larry? Six months of ass-kicking, and then you're in the clear. Clean slate!

 

[vraiblonde]

or....

Her: So and so...
Me: Tell 'em to grow up and shove it?
Her: Well I did but...
Me: So, if you took care of it, what's your problem again?
Her: Nevermind...

Again, ladies, talk to your girlfriends, not your man.

Because here's how it should really go:

Her: So and so...
Me: OMG! Are you serious? Well what did you do then?
Her: Well! I
Me: Wow! What'd she have to say to that?
Her: Oh, she was all like so I just told her
Me: You should tell her to go jump, that you're not going to take that crap
Her: I should!

 

[Agee]

Again, ladies, talk to your girlfriends, not your man.

Because here's how it should really go:

Her: So and so...
Me: OMG! Are you serious? Well what did you do then?
Her: Well! I
Me: Wow! What'd she have to say to that?
Her: Oh, she was all like so I just told her
Me: You should tell her to go jump, that you're not going to take that crap
Her: I should!

Interesting, so your lady friends always have your best interest in mind vise a husband or boyfriend? ummmmmmmm!

 

[vraiblonde]

Interesting, so your lady friends always have your best interest in mind vise a husband or boyfriend? ummmmmmmm!

No, but we will listen to each other #####

 

[Chain729]

Interesting, so your lady friends always have your best interest in mind vise a husband or boyfriend? ummmmmmmm!

Psssttt... You're missing the point. They don't want solutions. They want someone to B&M to. Someone that'll just smile and nod and not do anything... ya know... like a manager.

 

[usagent]

Psssttt... You're missing the point. They don't want solutions. They want someone to B&M to. Someone that'll just smile and nod and not do anything... ya know... like a manager.

LIKE A MANAGER! That's awesome

 

[rockeye77]

I'm new here, but not really new to forums. Sounded initially like MPD to me. But when I try to put myself in his situation, I see it as a somewhat desperate attempt at trying to get his dilemma solved. Not knocking anyone at all, nor defending the original poster.

I wuldnt say deperate....clse I am just nt there yet. I d feel like i am in a rck and a hard place.
I will answer some questions I see out there.
1. I am the one who got us int therapy

2. remote island comment. Trust me it had thing t d with revenge r getting her back.

3. I have to agree with the whole she just wants the doc to agree with her part.

also in reference to my second point. what would YOU have done when a innocent evening of card playing takes a wierd turn and the girl comes out of the bathroom naked and tells you you r going to f### her. now don't forget you r 4 months into a 6 month deployment. What would any of you have done?

ladies i want your opion to if the roles were reversed.

 

[RoseRed]

I wuldnt say deperate....clse I am just nt there yet. I d feel like i am in a rck and a hard place.
I will answer some questions I see out there.
1. I am the one who got us int therapy

2. remote island comment. Trust me it had thing t d with revenge r getting her back.

3. I have to agree with the whole she just wants the doc to agree with her part.

also in reference to my second point. what would YOU have done when a innocent evening of card playing takes a wierd turn and the girl comes out of the bathroom naked and tells you you r going to f### her. now don't forget you r 4 months into a 6 month deployment. What would any of you have done?

ladies i want your opion to if the roles were reversed.

Are you high?

 

[vraiblonde]

what would YOU have done when a innocent evening of card playing takes a wierd turn and the girl comes out of the bathroom naked and tells you you r going to f### her.

Um...said "no thank you"?

Now the story comes out. Because women don't just get naked and proposition some guy unless they're pretty sure he's amenable. So you must have been flirting with her and leading up to it. Which is cheating, worse than the actual sex act.

Anyway, I think she should be over it by now IF you have been behaving yourself and not continuing to give her something to worry about.

 

[usagent]

what would YOU have done when a innocent evening of card playing takes a wierd turn and the girl comes out of the bathroom naked and tells you you r going to f### her. now don't forget you r 4 months into a 6 month deployment. What would any of you have done?

ladies i want your opion to if the roles were reversed.

That is the coolest ship ever!!!!!!

 

[Rael]

I wuldnt say deperate....clse I am just nt there yet. I d feel like i am in a rck and a hard place.
I will answer some questions I see out there.
1. I am the one who got us int therapy

2. remote island comment. Trust me it had thing t d with revenge r getting her back.

3. I have to agree with the whole she just wants the doc to agree with her part.

also in reference to my second point. what would YOU have done when a innocent evening of card playing takes a wierd turn and the girl comes out of the bathroom naked and tells you you r going to f### her. now don't forget you r 4 months into a 6 month deployment. What would any of you have done?

ladies i want your opion to if the roles were reversed.

Well, I feel a little foolish now for posting after reading this. I walked right into that one, didn't I?

 

[vraiblonde]

Well, I feel a little foolish now for posting after reading this. I walked right into that one, didn't I?

Don't you hate that?

 

[Roberta]

Um...said "no thank you"?

Now the story comes out. Because women don't just get naked and proposition some guy unless they're pretty sure he's amenable. So you must have been flirting with her and leading up to it. Which is cheating, worse than the actual sex act.

Anyway, I think she should be over it by now IF you have been behaving yourself and not continuing to give her something to worry about.

Explain please.

 

[Roberta]

So you must have been flirting with her and leading up to it. Which is cheating, worse than the actual sex act.

I ment to higlight that part.

 

[DoWhat]

The way it should be

Female: Face down butt up

Male: Thanks honey, that was fun. Now get in the kitchen and cook me something to eat (while he smacks her ass).

 

[rockeye77]

So you must have been flirting with her and leading up to it. Which is cheating, worse than the actual sex act.

I ment to higlight that part.

Hate to dissapoint you, however I did nothing to make her think I was ever interested in her. I think she had some demons of her own.

 

[vraiblonde]

Explain please.

Because I can see two people being lonely on travel and one thing leads to another. But, to me, the lead up was willful and planned, whereas the actual romp was merely hormones taking over. Does that make sense? Kind of like, you shouldn't have encouraged the situation to begin with.

 

[rockeye77]

The night began with 10 t 15 people hanging out playing cards and just having fun. turds the end f the night she winds up being the last one left. I tell her its getting late. She says k and can she use my bathroom first. Well you all now the rest.