Worst ex-spouse ever?

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
So, in other words, he is ONLY a douche bag because of your personal opinion of him?

It sounds to me, according to what you say here, that he is a pretty good NCP and takes care of his business.

Eh. He's a partial DB because he doesn't strive to make more money or ever offer to cough up even a tiny bit of pocket change to help out with anything. But, for the sake of our child, I refuse to let him go to jail because he cannot afford child support. He loves our daughter and is physically there for her. In my eyes and in this case, that's all that matters in the end.
 

SoMDGirl42

Well-Known Member
So, in other words, he is ONLY a douche bag because of your personal opinion of him?

It sounds to me, according to what you say here, that he is a pretty good NCP and takes care of his business.

My daughter's father is a self admitted douche bag. WTF I ever saw in him, I still can't figure out. :killingme
 

SG_Player1974

New Member
I thank you all for helping me understand and giving me your inputs on this.

If I come away with anything it is this regarding this matter....

Most of the Females on this forum who are custodial divorced parents have the following:

- At least one bad EX that they are dealing with
- Are totally incapable of having a conversation in which they can leave out their personal opinions and just think about the question at hand.

I can see this might turn into another Jennifer@Red Robin thread so I am going to move on.

BTW: Might want to alter the forum rules to express that "some" people do not have to abide by them! Those people and their minions. :whistle:
 

xobxdoc

Active Member
I thank you all for helping me understand and giving me your inputs on this.

If I come away with anything it is this regarding this matter....

Most of the Females on this forum who are custodial divorced parents have the following:

- At least one bad EX that they are dealing with
- Are totally incapable of having a conversation in which they can leave out their personal opinions and just think about the question at hand.

I can see this might turn into another Jennifer@Red Robin thread so I am going to move on.

BTW: Might want to alter the forum rules to express that "some" people do not have to abide by them! Those people and their minions. :whistle:

Did you not read post # 128? You got your answer but you are ignoring it.
 

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
- Are totally incapable of having a conversation in which they can leave out their personal opinions and just think about the question at hand.
You are clearly illiterate. Or perhaps you only read what you want to read. Your question was answered: the court determined your CS with your visitation in mind. You just do not choose to accept that, which is not the same as not getting an answer.
BTW: Might want to alter the forum rules to express that "some" people do not have to abide by them! Those people and their minions. :whistle:
And you're a crybaby.
 

SoMDGirl42

Well-Known Member
I thank you all for helping me understand and giving me your inputs on this.

If I come away with anything it is this regarding this matter....

Most of the Females on this forum who are custodial divorced parents have the following:

- At least one bad EX that they are dealing with
- Are totally incapable of having a conversation in which they can leave out their personal opinions and just think about the question at hand.

I can see this might turn into another Jennifer@Red Robin thread so I am going to move on.

BTW: Might want to alter the forum rules to express that "some" people do not have to abide by them! Those people and their minions. :whistle:

I think I broke down my opinion very well for you without my personal opinion, until later, when you couldn't accept my unbiased opinion in the first several posts I made.

Moral of the story is.

Fathers are always bitter about paying child support, even when they aren't there for 50% of the daily care. :coffee:
 

xobxdoc

Active Member
I think I broke down my opinion very well for you without my personal opinion, until later, when you couldn't accept my unbiased opinion in the first several posts I made.

Moral of the story is.

Fathers are always bitter about paying child support, even when they aren't there for 50% of the daily care. :coffee:
Sometimes the mothers are.
 

JeJeTe

Happiness
I thank you all for helping me understand and giving me your inputs on this.

If I come away with anything it is this regarding this matter....

Most of the Females on this forum who are custodial divorced parents have the following:

- At least one bad EX that they are dealing with
- Are totally incapable of having a conversation in which they can leave out their personal opinions and just think about the question at hand.

I can see this might turn into another Jennifer@Red Robin thread so I am going to move on.

BTW: Might want to alter the forum rules to express that "some" people do not have to abide by them! Those people and their minions. :whistle:

I wish we could dislike posts....When is that feature becoming available?
 

SoMDGirl42

Well-Known Member
So he actually got his answer TWICE.

More than twice, but it wasn't the answer he wanted to hear.

Reminds me of another user that would ask for advise, then get pissed when advice was given and it wasn't the answer the OP wanted to hear. Then everyone was "attacking" the OP.
 

SG_Player1974

New Member
Did you not read post # 128? You got your answer but you are ignoring it.

Thank you for pointing me back to that post. I believe that when I initially read it (or mis-read it!) that I wrote it off.

So essentially, you are saying that in Maryland... as an example:

If NCP does not visit child at all, support = $1000/month

If NCP visits child for 50 total days/year.. support = $900/month

This is definitely not accurate however, I believe this is kind of what you are stating correct?

If this is, then I completely agree. However, this is NOT the way they do things where my divorce is from. CS payments are SOLELY based on salary of NCP, amount of children, and ages.

I still do NOT have to pay when I have the children for more than 15 days of any month though which is different than Maryland. I wonder why that is not implemented here?

Nevermind... Dont want any more DEATH threats :coffee:
 

SoMDGirl42

Well-Known Member
Thank you for pointing me back to that post. I believe that when I initially read it (or mis-read it!) that I wrote it off.

So essentially, you are saying that in Maryland... as an example:

If NCP does not visit child at all, support = $1000/month

If NCP visits child for 50 total days/year.. support = $900/month

This is definitely not accurate however, I believe this is kind of what you are stating correct?

If this is, then I completely agree. However, this is NOT the way they do things where my divorce is from. CS payments are SOLELY based on salary of NCP, amount of children, and ages.

I still do NOT have to pay when I have the children for more than 15 days of any month though which is different than Maryland. I wonder why that is not implemented here?

Nevermind... Dont want any more DEATH threats :coffee:

Knock knock. HELLO??????? You are asking a forum about child support. We live in MARYLAND. Hello. You are going to get mostly responses from people who deal in MARYLAND child support cases.

Yes, Maryland decides child support on the number of days the NCP has the child. Duh. That's what I've been telling you for the last 6 hours.

You work for the government, don't ya? :popcorn:
 

RoseRed

American Beauty
PREMO Member
I thank you all for helping me understand and giving me your inputs on this.

If I come away with anything it is this regarding this matter....

Most of the Females on this forum who are custodial divorced parents have the following:

- At least one bad EX that they are dealing with
- Are totally incapable of having a conversation in which they can leave out their personal opinions and just think about the question at hand.

I can see this might turn into another Jennifer@Red Robin thread so I am going to move on.

BTW: Might want to alter the forum rules to express that "some" people do not have to abide by them! Those people and their minions. :whistle:


I no longer get to interact (good or bad) with my ex. I no longer receive child support. I have her 24/7 365.

He died. :sad:
 

SoMDGirl42

Well-Known Member
I no longer get to interact (good or bad) with my ex. I no longer receive child support. I have her 24/7 365.

He died. :sad:

That is sad.

How was the experience with Social Security? Not to be rude, but if my ex keeps up his way of life, it won't be long. Seriously. He and I have had this conversation. He now sends me a text once a day or everyother day that just says "still alive"
 

RoseRed

American Beauty
PREMO Member
That is sad.

How was the experience with Social Security? Not to be rude, but if my ex keeps up his way of life, it won't be long. Seriously. He and I have had this conversation. He now sends me a text once a day or everyother day that just says "still alive"

Make an appointment and it will be a breeze. I did get quite a few stink eye looks when I was called to the head of the line.
 
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