Grown Men Livin Wit Mommy....
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Railroad
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We encouraged both kids to leave home by the time they were 21. We told them that if things didn't work out, they could come back. Neither of them has done so, I'm proud to say.
I left home soon after graduating from High School. I went back for a short time (like maybe three months) just before I joined the Navy at 21. It was hard to make it on my own, but it was harder to put up with the parents and the little brother. So honestly, I took the path of least resistance; it could just as easily have been a decision to stay at home, had the parents and sibling been different.
It takes guts to be independent, but it also takes a certain amount of rebellion. The latter is as negative a quality as the former is positive.
On the other hand, by 21, one should be trying to sustain oneself and take responsibility for oneself without the aid of the parents. The thought of needing parental aid should be repugnant, so repugnant that one would work 2 jobs before resorting to it.
In the case of both of our kids, (now 25 and 23) they won't even let us buy textbooks for their college courses, and they're putting themselves through college while working and paying rent. I'm VERY proud of them both!
I left home soon after graduating from High School. I went back for a short time (like maybe three months) just before I joined the Navy at 21. It was hard to make it on my own, but it was harder to put up with the parents and the little brother. So honestly, I took the path of least resistance; it could just as easily have been a decision to stay at home, had the parents and sibling been different.
It takes guts to be independent, but it also takes a certain amount of rebellion. The latter is as negative a quality as the former is positive.
On the other hand, by 21, one should be trying to sustain oneself and take responsibility for oneself without the aid of the parents. The thought of needing parental aid should be repugnant, so repugnant that one would work 2 jobs before resorting to it.
In the case of both of our kids, (now 25 and 23) they won't even let us buy textbooks for their college courses, and they're putting themselves through college while working and paying rent. I'm VERY proud of them both!
SamSpade
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migtig said:
Mostly, I agree. But it doesn't look good, because we're all familiar with loser-types who really ARE just a buncha deadbeats.
My sister used to date this guy who still lived at home.
However....he was a *very* well paid Washington lawyer -- his father was an extremely wealthy neurosurgeon - and they lived in a mansion near Chevy Chase. In addition, his culture wasn't fond of sons moving out until they were married, and since he was a bit of a player - that wasn't going to happen anytime soon. As much as I'd like to ride him for still living with Mom and Dad - his section of the mansion was bigger than my *home*. He'd have been *CRAZY* to give it up.
Tina2001aniT
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Elle said:I got 2 of them. Does that make me extra special
Not anymore extra special than me, I got two of them too....
Dougstermd
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This is too funny. I loaned my motor home to someone last night cause he lived with his mommy and the girl would not take him home cause her boyfriend was there. 
Tina2001aniT
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angel_lex21 said:
She forgot to mention that her daughter is eight.......AND.......
1. THEY ALL (her him and the daughter) lived with his father, until she ran off with his best friend....
2. Said Baby's Daddy JUST started his own company approx. a month ago, and is getting on his feet, but DEFINATELY pays child support....AND buys the kiddo everything she could ever need on top of his child support.
3. Said baby's daddy gets his daughter EVERY weekend, and any other time that he can, and treats her wonderfully.....that little girl is his life...
Shall I continue????
She admires your independence and would like you to keep it. Don't take the laundry, the last thing she needs is another man asking her where the socks are.Pete said:My mommy wont let me move back homeShould I take my laundry home for her to do since we are going there tonight?
Pete
Repete
Actually I think my mother has a thing about laundry. Whenever Boy and I go she cannot wait for us to change clothes so she can grab the old clothes and wash them.bresamil said:
I think it is some strange "mother duty" thing. If I took her a load of underwear she would be very happy..........hey......nevermind.
Chasey_Lane
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Who you talkin' bout?Tina2001aniT said:
Tina2001aniT
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Chasey_Lane said:Who you talkin' bout?
I just so happen to know her and know the story......She is talkin trash about someone very close to me, and I just figured I would clear a few things up....angel_lex21 said:
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Schizo
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I live with my mommy BECAUSE I want to. 
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