Ladies: Your on a date, the check comes...

[mainman]

Yea right.

So, you're gonna argue with me at the end of the meal as to who pays for it?

 

[DoWhat]

Actually I tend to pay on the first date for different reasons.
I pay so that my date has no right to ##### about shelling out x amount of dollars on me. I pay so that he knows right off the bat that I am independent. I pay so that if I don't want to see him again, I am under no obligation to do so. I also pay because odds are I have more money than him anyway.

Did Gumbo pay for your ticket to the races?

 

[migtig]

Or do you pay so you dont feel obligated to put out?

Sorry had to go there. That was the first thing that popped into my head.

No disrespect I swear

No seriously, I was raised so Southern sugar wouldn't melt in my mouth. In the course of that Southern upbringing I was told I was under no obligation to any man other than to smile sweetly and thank him for a lovely time.

And I'll put out if I want to, regardless of who pays.

As a woman who knows her mind, I pay for the first date, more or less to make it clear, that I am definitely in control, unless of course I don't want to be.

 

[migtig]

So, you're gonna argue with me at the end of the meal as to who pays for it?

Odds are, I would have already discreetly paid for it...no arguement is necessary. And if my date wants to argue over it bye bye.

 

[Qurious]

If he lets you...

True. There were a few who said "no let me get this, or I got it."

 

[mainman]

Odds are, I would have already discreetly paid for it...no arguement is necessary. And if my date wants to argue over it bye bye.

How would you have already paid for it?

 

[migtig]

How would you have already paid for it?

Men really are slow.

 

[mainman]

Men really are slow.

:controlfreak: <--- you'll be getting the bill for those...

 

[migtig]

:controlfreak: <--- you'll be getting the bill for those...

Guess you don't like a woman on top...

 

[LordStanley]

Guess you don't like a woman on top...

Id do

 

[mainman]

Guess you don't like a woman on top...

I never said that....

We will just have to agree to disagree here, you insist on paying for the first meal and so do I...:shrug:

 

[DoWhat]

Quote:
Originally Posted by migtig
Actually I tend to pay on the first date for different reasons.
I pay so that my date has no right to ##### about shelling out x amount of dollars on me. I pay so that he knows right off the bat that I am independent. I pay so that if I don't want to see him again, I am under no obligation to do so. I also pay because odds are I have more money than him anyway.

Did Gumbo pay for your ticket to the races?

Well?

 

[migtig]

Well?

I have never been to the races with Gumbo. I have never meet Gumbo irl. Sorry to disillusion you from your fantasies.

 

[Wickedwrench]

Why, yes, you did. The frilly apron was a nice touch, too.

Figured that would get your attention.

 

[Chasey_Lane]

How else do u show your interested in someone?

You let them have the last chocolate fundge brownie.

 

[Wickedwrench]

You let them have the last chocolate fudge brownie.

Better than a frilly apron with my arse hangin out anyday.

 

[Pete]

Is it the first date? I usually pay on the first date anyway. This is after all a modern day and age.

Just a cotton pickin minute. I paid for all 3 meals we have shared. Even the turbo hot fudge sundae's with nuts and bananas for dessert.

 

[migtig]

Just a cotton pickin minute. I paid for all 3 meals we have shared. Even the turbo hot fudge sundae's with nuts and bananas for dessert.

I did post "unless I don't want to be in charge". I was gonna let you be Patton and everything. But nooooo...

 

[Pete]

I did post "unless I don't want to be in charge". I was gonna let you be Patton and everything. But nooooo...

uh huh, You just wanted me for my okra.

 

[migtig]

uh huh, You just wanted me for my okra.

Actually it was for your sweet tea.

If I didn't think I'd scare the boy, I'd try to charm ya out of your sweet tea again.