Pasofever said:I do not get out alot myself..as I have to have a sitter for mom to leave..that is what I said...and I can not have a sitter come in from the outside...It has to be hubby or daughter
Mrs. Hap said:Yes, and you also pointed out that hubby said you cannot leave without your mother and you can't carry the wheelchair down the stairs. Those are very, very heavy. Its mean of him to tell you that everytime you leave the house you have to take her. Its ridiculous and not practical.
Pasofever said:Right but that is his way of having me not leave...so instead of saying..YOU CAN NOT GO..he says take your mom..so I stay home...I get daughter to watch her when I can so I can have some "fun"
Pasofever said:Married over 20 yrs he does not hit but I do not talk back and I yes sir no sir and move out of his way...He was not like this at first..but with taking care of mom and the animals I am limited to moving..even though I pay ALL the bills here...And now he told me today I can not leave the house unless I take mom with me..but he says this all the time..Sure you can go but take your mom..knowing I can not get the wheel chair down stairs by myself...
I'm really sorry that you have to go through this , you deserve way better! His day will come and I'm sure not soon enough.
Hubby told me this am I have to place all 3 of the small dogs or he will kill them..I hope he gets over this...
WOW. Is it Karma?
You could always point a gun to his nads and give him a choice, the dogs stay if his balls stays.....:shrug:
Karma for whom? Paso is living in Hell. He's a happy vegetable.
He's probably forgotten what dogs and nads are.
Karma for whom? Paso is living in Hell. He's a happy vegetable.
He's probably forgotten what dogs and nads are.
sorry just need to vent for a moment... I know it's great to adopt from a rescue and everything but lately here I have not had much luck because I have 2 kids. I am probably going to end up buying from a breeder because the rescues I have applied for won't adopt a large dog out to somebody with kids. I own a large breed dog who is great with kids. It's very frustrating. I am trying not to go to a breeder, but I can't adopt so.....
sorry just need to vent for a moment... I know it's great to adopt from a rescue and everything but lately here I have not had much luck because I have 2 kids. I am probably going to end up buying from a breeder because the rescues I have applied for won't adopt a large dog out to somebody with kids. I own a large breed dog who is great with kids. It's very frustrating. I am trying not to go to a breeder, but I can't adopt so.....
Breezy, not sure of the situation but, rescues do adopt out to peeps with kids, but it has to be under the right situation. Bottom line is...what is the best situation for the dog, a 4ever home...not a well, the dog keeps jumping up on my kid...etc....my kid is scared so I need to give the pup up.. I work with SHR and I can say, they are full disclosure and look out for the best interest in all involved. JMHO!!
Are there any adopt-a-pet events going on this weekend in St. Mary's County?
Do any of the shelters have hours that they are open to look at the dogs?
Are there any adopt-a-pet events going on this weekend in St. Mary's County?
Do any of the shelters have hours that they are open to look at the dogs?
If you are looking to adopt an animal, be it dog or cat or even a rabbit, please check your local rescues. These rescue groups pull the animals from the shelter or take owner surrenders to keep them from death row at the shelter, but every dog we have in rescue that isn't adopted takes up room, keeping us from helping other dogs.
The other way to really help rescue and save dogs/cats from being killed at the shelter is to be a foster home, opening your home to these wonderful animals and being their "bridge" from their old life to their new life.
Local organizations:
Lucky Ones
Second Hope Rescue
Happy Cats
AARF
SMAWL
CAWL
Humane Society of Calvert County
Golden Retriever Rescue of Southern Maryland
Bunny Magic
The Thelma Foundation
Greyt Expectations Greyhound Rescue
Pets with Disabilities
Throwaways Rescue
Doodle Dawgs and Fabulous Felines
Humane Society of Charles County
Beagle Rescue of Southern Maryland
Tri County Animal Shelter
Petfinder
Prince George's Animal Management
Lab Rescue of LRCP