Late bloomers
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MMDad
Lem Putt
Anyone besides me read this and think "Yeah...jealous..."?
Maybe that's what he wants - meaningless relationships with random strippers. It takes a lot of effort being in a committed relationship and having to concern yourself with someone else's needs. I can totally see how someone would want an easier way to get laid.
You'd have to meet him. He tries to "save" them from being strippers. It's incredibly pathetic and sick. It's meaningless for them but to him it's real, and he wants it to be meaningful and lasting. He wants a committed relationship, but that isn't what you find in a strip club.
Trust me on this one - this isn't someone with a healthy attitude on relationships. We have the same mother, but he is still dependent on her for emotuional support and needs her approval. And she feeds it.
MMDad
Lem Putt
I am only speaking for MYself. I was not looking and in fact, didn't even date for 6 years. I could not think of anything I loathed more then the thought of dating. My "list" was not long but at the top was I would not forsake my kids. Period. They didn't ask for the divorce & I owed them my time & attention.
I was pretty much resigned to staying unattached for awhile-but I was not UNhappy- I've always had a very full life with many interests.
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
Everyone wants someone who is perfect for them. If they meet someone who has a quality that they do not generally go for AND they are the perfect person for them, that quality will not matter. Now, in saying that, I still have guyfriends who rank a 2-3 that have been single for YEARS. Why? Because they insist on looking for a 9-10. Not going to happen.
ArkRescue
Adopt me please !
.... ooohhh look there is still hope for me to have my own kid......
Oh good lawd NO!!!!!!
ICit
Jam out with ur clam out
yeah... thats right...
and now you need to look at the picture i posted to my wall!!!! (its about kids)
MMDad
Lem Putt
Can't argue with that. I hated the dating scene. Can't imagine trying to develop a relationship while still trying to parent.
ArkRescue
Adopt me please !
Lol keep in mind many times the older men are dating/marrying younger women who are in their late 20's/30's when having these kids.
I absolutely don't want a 50 year old guy who's interested in 20 year olds. And he doesn't want me, either.
Ick.
ArkRescue
Adopt me please !
I think after dealing with a younger mentality, they appreciate women their age, so they don't necessarily stay with the youngins .
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
And you've never felt sorry for him, right?
MMDad
Lem Putt
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
Why would you think that?
I know a few guys like that. I just do not feel sorry for them. Nobody can be that damn naive.
Double ick!
MMDad
Lem Putt
Look Vrai! Your dream man is here!!!!
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
MMDad
Lem Putt
Ah, I thought you were saying I was jealous or heartless.
I sort of feel sorry for him because he was dealt a bad hand to begin with. Not only do we have the same screwed up parents, but he is 4' 11" tall, has scoliosis and bad teeth, only has one nut, and is in a wheelchair.
But for his self created issues, no I don't feel sorry for him. He's a smart guy, he should learn from his mistakes.
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
Okay, I think you're being for real. If you're not, it looks like one of SmoothMarine's posts.
But, dayum. Poor dude.
Lisp?