aps45819
24/7 Single Dad
I stand by my original assumption, especially if you were there BEFORE he gpt divorced
What is wrong with me?
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I stand by my original assumption, especially if you were there BEFORE he gpt divorced
Xaquin44
New Member
that you noticed
sorry and everything, but if he couldn't tell his kids that you two were romanticly involved that should have sent up a huge flag.
Yeah, I think post #3 or 4. It's still riveting.
mizteresa1965
New Member
Oh!!! ding ding ding ding ding!!! That what I was thinking too................but I was going to add a little blurb about being niave ..........but I didn't.
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dems4me
Guest
It sounds like it was fake :shrug: Obviously there was no communication or you would have seen this coming :shrug: I'm am sorry for what you are going through though.
kwillia
n/a
Okay.. back to seriousness... because the relationship played itself out and he no longer viewed it as a loving, nurturing, growing relationship. I'm sure it took him longer than two seconds to come to the conclusion so now all you have to do is realize it's over and then you'll be caught up. It takes two to make a relationship work. It only takes ONE to break it up.
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juggy4805
Guest
The only thing that makes sense is you were there for reasons other than love or a relationship. It seems he used you to get over the ex.
Well, obviously there were problems or he wouldn't have broken it off with you.
So the question: what's wrong with you? My answer is that you have no self-esteem and are so desperate for a man that you'll take any lout that comes down the pike, and you'll allow him to treat you poorly because you don't think you deserve any better.
SoMDGirl42
Well-Known Member
He has a 3 year old. You've been seeing him for three years. You were there when he got divorced. Could you possibly be the reason he's divorced?
kwillia
n/a
I disagree. Sometimes a relationship just stops working. It's not like they had built a life together during those three years. They were just really good friends with benefits.
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dems4me
Guest
Is it time to start playing "Guess the MPD" yet?
lets move on, I've heard too much healthy advice for one day 
I'm guessing its the same girl that took over her neighbors computor who was logged in at the time, and then tried to steal someone identity as a model in Greece or something or other. I have dibs on this being that same person 
What's your guess Jazz? :shrug:
nobody really
I need a nap
i just don't understand the kids not knowing - when my (now ex) were dating, i could understand him not wanting me to get close to the kid, since he was only 4. but when our relationship grew and became serious, we did more and more with the kid - and it was about 8 months into the relationship. I would very seriously question the guys motive if you've been with him for three years and he doesn't want to get the kids involved? i would think he would want to, just to see if you and the kids click.
You have to wonder about a guy who ditches his wife and newborn. Sounds like a real peach.
migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
It sounds like it was fake :shrug: Obviously there was no communication or you would have seen this coming :shrug: I'm am sorry for what you are going through though.
Dems summed that up very well. It wasn't real. The feelings you had were just that, feelings you had. He didn't. It's pretty obvious he didn't care about you. Sorry. That's the way the cookie crumbles.
Now take everything of his that you have and make a bonfire. Follow Beachcat's advice. Cry - get angry stomp and then say "F him".
Once you are done having your temper tantrum, get involved in some area activities that interest you. Do something good for other people so you are appreciated and feel good about yourself.
Whatever you do - DON'T call or contact him. Easier said than done. But the more active you get, the less likely you are to do that.
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juggy4805
Guest
Exactly, he didn't want a realationship or love. He wanted company.